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Message: Wonderful job

From: Arnold4706 Sent: 9 Sep. 2004 Message 1 of 6

Dear Cindy and Joe,
Recently discovering the CindyandJoe sites was a delight. Combined with a free, humorous attitude regarding certain aspects of sexuality there is also great dignity. This couple is to be respected, and they will respect others! On top of this Joe (?) shows professionalism in how the sites are managed, and with his advice regarding picture sessions. Also the other articles here are very good reading. Of special interest was the one where Cindy told about her piercings at +50.

But was I disappointed when I understood that actually Cindy seems to be out of the picture since long ago. The reason for this is of course none of my business, but if she thinks she is too old, that's nonsense. I would have liked to ask Cindy a few questions, and the answers I hoped would have been helpful for couples where there is some hesitation regarding getting pierced. Could the questions still reach Cindy?

Thanks for the good job, anyway,

Arnold

From: Joe Sent: 10 Sep. 2004 Message 2 of 6

Dear Arnold,

Thank you for your message, and welcome to "Cindy and Joe".

I have a background in the IT business, and in "real life" I manage a couple of other web sites, so that explains the "professionalism" you've seen. Although I must admit that I'm not using as much time to maintain the "data archive" web site as I feel I should. :-(

As for Cindy's participation here, she does answer questions and she administers this site when I'm off on business trips. So if you have questions for Cindy, just fire away! :-)

Joe

From: Arnold4706 Sent: 14 Sep. 2004 Message 3 of 6

Dear Joe,

Many thanks for your friendly reply. So now, allow me to address Cindy directly.

Dear Cindy,

The story about how you got your piercings should be wonderfully encouraging reading for every couple discussing the matter. What couples do for love and erotic reasons is so beautiful. I believe the main obstacle for women not wanting to do this is not the anticipated pain, but the fact that the doctor (eventually other medical personnel as well) undoubtedly will find out about the things that you do to your genitals. You say that you used to be so shy even about the shawing that you let the hair grow out well in advance. That’s familiar procedure. But would you kindly tell us how you overcame the problem with the piercings – they will certainly show also with the rings removed. Did you just convince yourself that this is nobody else’s business, or how did you manage? After this, you cannot be too shy about the shawing anymore. How was the first visit to the doctor? Your feelings and the doctor’s reaction?

Also, you like nipple play. Is there any special reason for not having your nipples done? Shouldn’t Joe consider at least a couple of Christmas celebrations at Ms. Hintze’s? ;-)

Kind regards,

Arnold

From: Cindy Sent: 19 Sep. 2004 Message 4 of 6

Dear Arnold,

Sorry for the late answer, been very busy.

To start with the last questions first, the idea of having my nipples pierced has never appealed to me at all. All I think about is OUCH. :-(

And anyway, Mette Hintze is no longer working as a piercer, unfortunately. She closed her clinic some years back, and I do not even know if there are any female piercers active in the Copenhagen area any more.

Then there is the question about how I feel about visiting my gynecologist. Well, to start with, I am sure that he would never comment on anything he considered private. So as long as he did not think my piercings were a health threat he would never remark on them.

What I want to feel is that what he sees is not something obvious, like if I was shaved or wearing my rings, it would be obvious and we would both know it was obvious. With the rings out and my pubic hair a couple weeks grown we can both pretend that there is nothing special about me down there, even if he perhaps can see the piercings.

Hope that makes some sense. :-)

Best wishes,
Cindy

From: Arnold4706 Sent: 23 Sep. 2004 Message 5 of 6

Dear Cindy,

Thank you for kindly answering my questions. It is of course what is obvious that counts, but on the same time it seems a bit funny that both parts have to pretend there's nothing special. I still believe that many ladies would feel too shy at the doctor’s. My wife doesn’t buy my opinion regarding shaving, that most doctors nowadays should be quite used to it, and that many of them also may have experienced even more exiting modifications.

Would other group members have comments on this?

All the best,

Arnold

From: Cindy Sent: 25 Sep. 2004 Message 6 of 6

Dear Arnold,

One more point regarding the mutual pretence that I feel that my gynecologist and I practice. :-)

My inner lips are fairly large and floppy, so I can easily delude myself into thinking that perhaps he is not able to see the piercings when he is looking around down there. Maybe? Hopefully? Perhaps?

Best wishes,
Cindy