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Message: Intro & tryin stuff(ing) ;-)

From: diamonde74 Sent: 27 Nov. 2002 Message 1 of 23

Hi hi all, my name is Diamonde and Im a Caribbean single woman living in Northern Europe. I have occasionally worked for adult industry doin modelin & movieclips.

Im bi & enjoy fistin a LOT - something most people I discuss it with cannot believe cause Im young & petite, and they think with some prejudice,associate fisting with older women who have given birth .

Anyways, I thought I'd share some ideas..interested Hmm? I like the fullness feeling and when I first got into fisting I was like an addict, did it daily for a couple of months straight. Then I noticed that normal intercourse didnt feel so hot any more, I had gotten looser :( Well I learn about kegels n' stuff, thats all good but since then I have also experimented with other ways of satisfaction..

I like the feeling of something big in me streching and the same like extends to normal sex. However not all guys are hung like horses...Hmm? But it can FEEL to me like they are, and here's how!

- Insert a string of plastic pleasure balls into the vagina, then take the penis in. Now you have something BIG in your vagina, and the feeling is great to me at least, I really cannot tell his penis from the balls, it just feels like he's very big.

- I experimented with my crazee and oh-so-luvable girlfriend (jeg alskar dig Annike!! xxx) one nite on makin something softer than the pleasure balls to put in. We took out some condoms and filled some water into one, then tied that and flipped the rest of the same condom over the water-filled section, so making a double-coated condom so to speak. Then we took another condom and pulled it on top of the water-filled one and tied that. So what we had was a water-filled condom-ball, soft and nice with enough rubber on it to keep it from bursting easily or leaking. Lubricated, it slipped into me easily. It felt very soft and nice and filling! So when next I entertained a gentleman I actually tried making 2 of these condom-waterballoons and in the course of play he slipped them into me, they felt lovely. Then he entered me and oh wow..it was huge, but so soft and nice and he felt like a man with elephantsize dick..sweet! ;-) These little water balloons feel better than anything, Im surprise that sextoy industry doesn't make a product like that. He enjoyed it also, he said I felt so tight and soft inside...sweet!

Well Im curious to know if anyone will have courage to try these but I know for me at least (and my girlfriend tried this also & like it) its fun and pleasure.

xxx

Diamonde

From: Joe Sent: 28 Nov. 2002 Message 2 of 23

Hi Diamonde, and welcome to "Cindy and Joe". Hope you find the discussions and pictures and videos of interest.

Thanks for the sexy story. Cindy and I will certainly be trying your "water balls" one of these days.

You're welcome to tell us more about your adventures and experiences if you feel like it.

Incidentally, Cindy and I live in Denmark, so I'm guessing we're not so far from each other. :-)

Joe

From: diamonde74 Sent: 28 Nov. 2002 Message 3 of 23

Hi Joe thanx 4 kind words! Denmark? Amazing, it really is a small world. I was just visiting South Sweden did some work at Malmö 4 some german company.

I dunno if the way I describe the waterballoon sound gross or weird but they really work nicely and feel good. I find a lot of men are needlessly insecure about the size of their penis some get offended at first when I have suggested we play with stuff like what I said in 1st message but afterwards they have been ok with it cause they also see it feels very good for me and them also. In any case men r always thinking of length with penis it really doesn't matter so much thickness is more the part which feels pleasurable for a woman.

xxx

Diamonde

From: cookie Sent: 29 Nov. 2002 Message 4 of 23

Hi Diamonde , your fisting accounts are very erotic and you sound like you really enjoy it. Would you mind telling us whether it was you or a male partner who first initiated fisted into your sex life? I know myself and probably other members would also love to see some pictures to go along with your story. Thanks for all Cookie

From: porcupine Sent: 29 Nov. 2002 Message 5 of 23

Hi Diamonde,

My lover and I have tried many, many things for diversion and fun, but nothing has compared to your water baloons. I fumbled around with the rubbers trying to duplicate your method but finally gave up and just filled them with as much water as they would hold and tied a knot in the end. We place a towel underneath us certain that they would break. We did have a little trouble inserting them and had to resort to the "doggy style"position to get them to stay in to start with. To our great surprise they held together even while I (always pushing the envelope) added my dick and one fist to the fray. What a rush! And again, of all the things we have ever tried, my sweetheart didn't just like the way this felt, she loved it! One thing I did was fill the rubbers with fairly warm (almost hot) water. When I asked if they were too hot she moaned and said she thought she would like them better if they were even hotter. Next time!

Thanks for a great tip. Please give us all the benefit of any others you may have.

Porcupine

From: diamonde74 Sent: 29 Nov. 2002 Message 6 of 23

Hi hi nice 2 hear it was fun for you!! Im sorry if the part about preparing the condoms was a bit unclear its a lil tricky 2 knot them & then bring the condom back over itself but practice makes perfect ;-)

Yeah I once put a little warm water in its a nice warming feeling and water gradually cools to body temp.

I like the feel of the waterfilled condom I guess so much cause they are really soft - but also they still have certain size which fills me nicely also they are so flexible not like a hard object so when a man then enters the balloon gives way to him filling filling me elsewhere inside so when he pushes in I feel the expansion which is very sexy to me at least! Soft but firm - and giving way to him also. I like 2 use 2 smaller size "pouch" or balloon because that allows them to give way even nicer.

The things a wassy Trini gyal mind can think of...hmm?!

I think the idea came to mind cause I like sex toys, but sometimes large dildos for example can feel a bit hard inside me and although I like full I dont like when the hardness hits wrong places sometimes.

Jelly dildos are my fave but waterfilled condom balls are so soft but firm enough and slippery as it gets after coating them with some lube, its a nice feeling slipping one in..One moment its in your hand and you squeeze it and it slips in - wow! Leaves me gasping always. Very cumfy! : )

I wish they would make softer fullsize sextoys..These balloons resemble silicon implant material (that could make some nice toys?).

xxx

Diamonde

From: diamonde74 Sent: 29 Nov. 2002 Message 7 of 23

Hi Cookie well my first fisting was by woman but its a little more comlex than that...Anywayz I have done it with men also (getting it not doin it 2 a man).

As said I have been on / off involved in adult industry so actually I have notice some of my pics floating in web already and then some people who I naively shared some pics with have post them here & there not so cool I think well I can only blame myself and anyways I guess it doesnt matter.

xxx

Diamonde

From: porcupine Sent: 29 Nov. 2002 Message 8 of 23

Diamonde

You are right about the silicone bags. Recently a surgeon friend was telling me that the newest saline filled silicone implants are very soft and durable. He even said you could park an SUV on one and it wouldn't break. There is no question in my mind after seeing how much my lover enjoyed your idea that this would be the top selling sex toy of all time if these implants were marketed as such. I may try to find a source for them.

Thanks again, and put that very fertile, sexy mind of yours to work on more great ideas like this.

Porcupine

From: diamonde74 Sent: 29 Nov. 2002 Message 9 of 23

Hi again yeah its funny that nobody has brought out such "soft" toys..I mean I enjoy the hardness of a man dont get me wrong but generally well I like soft, smooth slippery when it comes to putting something inside my body..After all, my insides are SOFT..so should things going in be, firmlike but nice n' softy..! ;-)

xxx

Diamonde

From: Joe Sent: 30 Nov. 2002 Message 10 of 23

OK, Cindy and I tried out the new "condoms filled with water" idea. Cindy liked it all right, but her vagina has been stretched so much that neither she nor I could feel much difference when there were two water-filled condoms inside her along with my cock. She could feel the difference though, and liked it. I'll buy some more condoms (we only had two on hand) so we can try it with more than two water-filled condoms.

Cindy (and I) could definitely feel the difference when I fisted her with the two water-filled condoms inside her, and she liked that very much. She massaged her clitoris and had one of her "big ones", and it was a bigger orgasm than her usual big orgasms, so the idea is certainly a success! :-)

I've attached a picture of the two condoms with water in them. By volume they're about the size of an average cock, so when Cindy had these two condoms and my cock in her it was sort of like having three cocks at once. But like I said, Cindy's vagina has become so stretched that neither she nor I could feel very much difference - which to me was an exciting situation! :-)

Thanks again for the idea, Diamonde.

Joe

CondomsFilledWithWater.jpg

From: jimbo2112athome Sent: 1 Dec. 2002 Message 11 of 23

what a fun idea! I think we will have to try that one ........

Diamonde, thanks for your inputs, I find it very refreshing that you are this way inclined in a male dominated environment. Men quite often get labelled as abusers when they enjoy fisting and your attitude goes some way to dispell this notion.

Have you any other sexploits that you would like to share with the group? And, for the record, could I ask what are your vaginal maximums in depth and circumference please? Like Joe I am a statistics freak!

Cheer

From: Joe Sent: 2 Dec. 2002 Message 12 of 23

Jimbo2112athome,

> Men quite often get labelled as abusers when they enjoy fisting ...

I certainly hope this isn't true. What makes you think this?

Joe

From: diamonde74 Sent: 2 Dec. 2002 Message 13 of 23

Hi again people!!! Well I thank you for the kind words jimbo I think I use to be very shy about sex also afraid of new ideas just a few years ago..I was really inexperienced. I had sex first time long after turning 20 so that tells u I was a "late bloomer" well what can I say, being in Europe has change me a lot in some ways its good like that I am admitting Im very sexual person and fully enjoy myself sexually in other ways well life could be better I guess it always could..hmm?

As said I have occasionally worked in "blue business" adult industry whatever u call it. That also has changed me to be much more direct and open well, I guess in person Im still normally quite shy and careful about what I say to whom people can be really cruel and reputation means a lot in a twofaced world where a lot of people go to church dont even admit they watch porn or something, but do heavy S&M in their bedrooms and would want to watch girls with dogs - well u catch my drift hmm?

Fisting is fun I am happy someone show me what it is despite of my early fears and worries well I could not believe I would like it and it turned out to be a total addiction! First time I was scared when her fist slip in me, it didnt hurt but I was so worried I wanted it out immediately she didnt do that instead she moved it back n' forth slow and I had 3 orgasms almost in a row until I pulled myself backwards to get her hand out. Then we talked about it and next time next day was sweet the idea start to turn me on and I propped my head with a pillow so I could occasionaly open my eyes and see her hand moving in & out of me. Visual stuff turns me on when Im in the mood. I had so many orgasms that nite it was HEAVEN!

As for my vagina measurements really guys, I have NO clue..thats a first nobodys ever asked me that heehee...They usually may ask measurements of body 36-24-36 ya know what I mean hmm? I guess Im not so deep inside I would say hmm, maximum length of dildo that fits me is maybe something like '7 inches not more. And Im not at doublefisting size inside atall atall atall well maybe if someone has VERY small hands..

Anyways I gotta go soon n' cook up something I have a rubarb pie in the oven 4 dessert and Im making chicken stew 4 myself and a friend hes coming over later.

xxx

Diamonde

From: RiktorsLady Sent: 2 Dec. 2002 Message 14 of 23

" Vibes rule" Oh that made me tee hee. Gotta love ya, Diamond. R.

From: diamonde74 Sent: 2 Dec. 2002 Message 15 of 23

Hi Cindy and Joe!!! Im glad if you guys liked the idea I think its nice soft - and full. Good combination. Just try and find out how many Cindy likes we're all different so anyways she may be able to enjoy it more if you use more of them.

My friends coming over later he has one of these new phones with a camera so maybe I will ask him 2 take a pic of my "balloons" he likes them 2 : ) I also have a new toy its like the Hitachi wand well different brand I tried it with a friend and she actually slipped the whole thing gradually into me I was getting a nice long deep massage at first it was kinda too strong but I got use 2 it quick..mmm very nice toy!

xxx

Diamonde

From: butch Sent: 3 Dec. 2002 Message 16 of 23

Diamonde74
So where can we see pictures of you.

From: diamonde74 Sent: 3 Dec. 2002 Message 17 of 23

Hi gang hows it hangin hmm..? Well Butch I dunno, I dont have a camera myself and most pics of me well Im not so happy about them typical woman I guess always find something wrong with them.

I have in the past send some pics 2 some people but they apparently post them all over the place no respect. Its 1 thing if I do modelin then they use the pics however they like cause I got paid for that but if I send personal pics 2 some1 then they post them well thats disrespectful I think.

xxx

Diamonde

From: porcupine Sent: 5 Dec. 2002 Message 18 of 23

Joe

My sweetheart is also very stretched out, but if you want to get Cindy's attention, try filling the condoms with very warm, almost hot water. I guarantee you she will then feel them in a way that will please you both. We tried it again last night with three condoms with as much as they would hold (about like youir pictures,) and I don't think the third one added a lot extra to the experience. We agree that there is some feeling of weight and fullness with the bags, but that these feelings were multiplied greatly by the sensation of extreme warmth. I expect the claw marks on my back to heal in the next week or so.

Good luck.

Porcupine

From: bigholeJustine Sent: 5 Dec. 2002 Message 19 of 23

Hi, Justine here, just wanted to let you know that we have tried it, with several smaller condoms(less water) and stuffed me with about seven of them. They kept moving inside of me all the time and it was amazing,- really crazy. I had the orgasm of my life, - next time we will go for the full package, fill me up completely with smaller condoms till i burst and then fuck me,- I can hardly wait.
Love Justine
ps my pics are in the Big Pussy-folder.

From: Joe Sent: 5 Dec. 2002 Message 20 of 23

Porcupine,

> I expect the claw marks on my back to heal in the next week or so.

At which time you'll be ready to try it again? :-)

Sounds good. Cindy and I will have to try it.

Joe

From: Joe Sent: 5 Dec. 2002 Message 21 of 23

Justine,

> ... next time we will go for the full package, fill me up completely with smaller condoms till i burst and then fuck me

Sounds a bit like what Cindy and I did once with golf balls. But it's probably nicer with the water-filled condoms. So we'll give that a try one of these days.

Thanks for your participation here at "Cindy and Joe".

Joe

From: Cindy Sent: 5 Dec. 2002 Message 22 of 23

Hi Porcupine,

Thank you very much for the hint, but as a general thing I would like to say that one should be very careful with what one puts in a vagina. The sensitivity that one has in one's hand (for example) to warn about possible hazards is to a large extent missing inside the vagina.

I learned this the hard way while playing with ice cubes once when I was young and foolish. Looking back I cannot understand why I didn't think of how an ice cube in the mouth or in the hand will quickly produce extreme discomfort because the temperature simply isn't good for one's flesh. I felt nothing similar in my vagina, but the ice cubes, while giving a neat sensation as they melted, were indeed bad for me. The result was a severe bladder infection.

Anyway, when you say "almost hot water" I'm assuming that you mean only a little bit above body temperature. We don't want anybody burning themselves.

Regards,
Cindy

From: porcupine Sent: 18 Dec. 2002 Message 23 of 23

Hi Cindy

You are certainly right about not wanting anyone to get hurt. And right again about the temperature. Just to be sure we did a test using a mercury-in-glass thermometer to be certain of our results, and found that 100 to105 degrees F was about the upper comfort level for the water filled condoms.

Hope you had a pleasant experience, and thank you for pointing out the wisdom in a a cautious approach.

Porcupine