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Message: Dildos & pussy stretching

From: niplvr Sent: 18 April 2001 Message 1 of 5

My partner and I luv using dildos & toys during sex. I have managed to get 3-4 fingers inside her but have not gotten to actual fisting. The thought of putting bigger objects into her pussy is a real turn on. What strectching techniques do you use to work up to the bigger dildos? How much stretching should you reasonably expect in one session?

I have thought about trying an inflatable dildo - does anyone have advise or recommendations on this?

Thanks for your help!

From: Jabo Sent: 20 April 2001 Message 2 of 5

I have been fisting with my girlfriend for many years now and am quite knowledgable on the subject. I would recommend using LOTS of lube and gradually stretching her with your fingers or dildos. I have read where inflatables can blow out and cause damage so I would stay away from them. Hope this helps.

From: Chris & Julie Sent: 23 April 2001 Message 3 of 5

We actually had an infaltable dildo that expoded while pumped up inside my wife's pussy. It didn't cause any injury but created quite a shock and kind of changed the 'mood of the moment'. After the laughter subsided I expressed my disappointment at the product reliability but my wife continues today to be highly amused about the incident.

Chris

From: Cindy Sent: 23 April 2001 Message 4 of 5

Hi niplvr,

Re general advice on stretching, you can find a lot of information on this site, for example in the "Excite Club Archives" and in my first story which you can find on the Message Board under "Cindy's stories".

As for inflatable dildos, I've heard that you have to be careful about quality, but beyond that I don't have any advice. I've never owned one myself.

Hi Jabo,

> I have read where inflatables can blow out and cause damage...

This confirms what I've heard about poor quality being a problem. On the other hand I'm a bit skeptical about a blow-out "causing damage", at least physical damage. I don't see how any parts would be propelled anywhere by such a blow-out.

Hi Chris & Julie,

Wow, that must have been a pretty shocking experience for Julie! It's good you can see the humor in the situation. Did the "earth move" for you? :-)

Regards,
Cindy

From: zappaz1 Sent: 24 April 2001 Message 5 of 5

Some people I know tell me they use balloons taken from blood pressure cuffs for very large vaginal stretching, but I know of no explosions among those who tell me they use them. I have seen them blown up to huge sizes and sat on without breaking... just to test their strength.

Such a "bursting event" might be possible (especially with some equipment many years old... as latex can get brittle after many years).

In personal use of sphygmomanometers (for over 40+ years) I have not seen any such balloons explode. I have seen them sometimes leak air after many years of usage when the rubber gets brittle (the air would usually leak slowly).

I buy new ones after three to five years, and give the old ones away. I remove the balloons from the cloth cuffs to wash the cloth at intervals (and clean the latex parts also for sanitary purposes before returning the balloons into the cloth cuff). I have found these products very durable. The mms of Hg pressure used while these balloons are inside the cloth cuffs is vastly greater than the pressure they are used at for vaginal stretching. Were it not for the cloth cuff, the rubber balloons would get very large at the same pressures used "while inside" the cloth cuff.

I do not have enough experience with the inflatable dildos to say about such "explosion" events, but have heard that some have very poor quality... compared to the latex balloons used in sphygmomanometer equipment (which may have to meet FDA quality standards for approval).

If any inflatable were to burst while being used for vaginal stretching, it would certainly be an "emotional event", and the sudden loss of air and size... would get your attention... LOL