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Message: Streching problems i.e. Cuts around the lips

From: marty480277 Sent: 7 July 2005 Message 1 of 6

For all your women out there that strech and fist. In you early days (starting out) did any encounter problems with cuts on the outer lips or inner for the matter. My wife has Shallow cuts on the outside of her lips allong her outer crotch Is this from the streching? I Don't understand why, unless I'm drawing her lips inward and she gets they minor cuts. We maybe only go extreme twice a month, Nothing like some of you ladies, but still fool around on a average twice a week, with toys and a few fingers. and help would be great...marty

From: Joe Sent: 8 July 2005 Message 2 of 6

Marty,

This sounds strange. Also your use of the word "cuts" which to me implies something caused by a sharp instrument. Maybe you mean abrasions or breaks in the surface of the skin.

Anyway, assuming it's not caused by a sharp object and it's not from such excessive stretching that breaks are created in the surface of the skin, the only suggestion I have is some kind of infection that attacks the skin. For example, Cindy has occasionally had a yeast infection that caused the skin around her clitoris to develop breaks in the surface, which was rather painful.

Joe

From: marty480277 Sent: 8 July 2005 Message 3 of 6

Joe,
Never sharp objects, my wife does have the ocassional yeast infection, Which is sore and itchy. It's like these thin lines on where her outer lips meet her body. and some internal. like the base of her clit
could it possibly be from too much stretching? Thats why I wondered if any other women have this problem, and are we going to fast. The larger Dildo hurts her a little, but it is definately a different pleasuring experience for her...Thanks
Marty

From: Jimm Sent: 9 July 2005 Message 4 of 6

I was wondering if your wife might be having this from low female hormones from female surgery or menopause? I know someone who had a similar problem but after taking hormones for her menopause problem it cleared up.

From: Cindy Sent: 9 July 2005 Message 5 of 6

Hi Marty and wife,

Like Joe said, I've had yeast infections occasionally, and once in a while it has resulted in breaks in the skin around my clitoris and inner lips.

There's lots of information on the Internet about yeast infections: just search for "vaginal yeast infections".

Yeast infections may be related to fisting and stretching activities (and even "normal" sex) if the vagina gets irritated from too much friction and not enough lubrication. It's probably very individual, i.e., most women can do things without it resulting in a yeast infection and a few can't. It may also depend on the time in the menstrual cycle and other factors - see the Internet pages that discuss the factors that contribute to yeast infections.

But it sounds to me like you are talking about breaks in the skin on the outer sides of the outer lips. I don't think this can be due to yeast infections.

Anyway, you and your wife should be in the best position to know what is causing the problem and what to avoid - just keep notes about what you do and check back if/when breaks in the skin or a yeast infection occurs.

Best wishes, and good luck,
Cindy

From: Jimm Sent: 9 July 2005 Message 6 of 6

Found the name of the product:

http://www.premarin.com/