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Message: Lack of sensitivity

From: EdandNat Sent: 04 Oct. 2000 Message 1 of 3

Help! We've only been active in the practice of vaginal fisting for about 6 months ( if not for this cite or accutualy the excite club it probably never would have happened) Now however nat has been experiancing a lack of sensativity to the clitoris, she likes to use an a.c. powered vibe. She is in her mid 30's and having given birth to 3 children naturaly is very familiar with kagel exercise and does them reguraly. Any ideas on how to help that little puppy to get back to life?

From: zappaz1 Sent: 04 Oct. 2000 Message 2 of 3

Hi EdandNat, Clitoral sensitivity can change. It certainly has nothing to do with fisting, as many women who do fisting have great clitoral sensitivity there.. as well as vaginal. Vaginal orgasms are naturally much more common with fisting and are usually a lot stronger and longer lasting than the clitoral type. It is nice to retain both types of orgasms however. Sometimes hormonal changes will affect clitoral sensitivity. Has your wife had gyn surgery lately, mumps, prolonged illness, or has she had irregular periods? Sometimes emotional stress will cause it. Beta blockers for blood pressure, antihistamines for allergies, certain nerve pills, and many other medications will also cause problems. There are a myriad of rare causes, so a doctor might be needed to make a diagnosis. Small doses of male hormone help female sensitivity and orgasms, but may be contraindicated (ask your doctor). A vacation with a second honeymoon will usually help the stress type problem (hope Cindy and Joe are having fun on their vacation).. LOL

From: Joe Sent: 07 Oct. 2000 Message 3 of 3

> (hope Cindy and Joe are having fun on their vacation)..

Thanks for the nice thoughts. We managed to relax somewhat, but I got myself a cold and am not yet feeling completely well yet.

On the subject of clitoral sensitivity, I once knew a woman who used a vibrator to give herself clitoral orgasms. She loved to do that while being fisted - she called it a "double orgasm" when she came that way.

Joe