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Message: Zappaz, great to have you in the club!

From: Cindy-CindyAndJoe Sent: April 22, 2000 Message 1 of 2

Hello Zappaz,

Until Joe and I "met" you we often wished we knew someone to ask about the health aspects of fisting. I've always felt too shy to ask my doctor, and even if I didn't I doubt I would get a useful answer. It's so good to be able to say "Ask Zappaz", when a member has a problem and needs a medically correct answer rather than "Uh, I think..."

One of the truly fantastic things about this club is that two members (you and Gina) can have an open, intelligent and informed discussion about the effects of a hysterectomi on the art of fisting. I love you two for that :-)

Zappaz, I want you to know that I really appreciate the time and energy you put into answering questions in this club. It's people like you that make this club worthwhile.

You are a great friend to us - you must have been a great gynechologist to your patients.

Love,
Cindy

From: zappaz1 Sent: April 22, 2000 Message 2 of 2

Thanks Cindy,

I appreciate the nice complement. I enjoy the conversations here. You are the most gracious of hosts.

I get considerable e-mail, and if there is a common thread to questions, if you wish, I will post something here.

I will try to contribute as best I can and attempt to answer questions about our fetish. My answers will be general ones, and will not be made to fit just one individual. I must strongly insist that individual personal medical advice ("the advice that one follows and acts upon") should always come from one's own personal physician. Sometimes that advice may even be difficult to obtain. Everybody is different and without a careful study of "their individual" situation, advice may be worthless or even harmful.

As this is also my fetish, I have accumulated as much information on this subject as I can, over a span of many many years. What I know can never be complete and infallible. I wish I could recommend other sources of information, and will do so if I find some reliable ones.

It may be hard to separate the medical and sexual aspects of this fetish, so forgive me if I tend to make them blend together. The psychological and mental aspects of our fetish are of even greater weight than the physical aspects.

I think that "Fantasy" is the most important part of this fetish.. maybe even more so than in most other sexual fetishes. Without fantasy (even extreme fantasy) we just have "routine sex". So I think the "mind" is the greatest sexual organ. Also real love, trust and respect are a more vital part of our fetish that most others. There is a very very intimate joining and "closeness" about this fetish that makes such mutual kindness a part of it.. regardless of how wild the fantasy part gets.

If my general answers help anyone, then I feel something has been accomplished. So if you ask me about your problem, don't be surprised if I tell about something I have seen that is along that line, but may not fit your individual problem.. at all :-) As I am older, I think my past experiences (mostly medical but some personal ones also) may contribute a little. My opinions based on that experience are "just personal opinions" and certainly they are not infallible.. lol

Thanks again,

zappaz1@excite.con