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Message: Too tight after fisting

From: sexytexaskitten Sent: July 8, 2000 Message 1 of 11

Hi all,
can anyone tell me why my cunt gets so swollen after an attempt to take fist in me. I am very close to taking a whole fist..but I am trying to figure out why immediately after trying to fist I get so tight it feels and looks like its glued shut.

From: zappaz1 Sent: July 8, 2000 Message 2 of 11

Some people have a histamine "swelling reaction" in the skin after stretching. Usually those people will also have pressure allergies and/or dermatographia.

Dermatographia is "skin writing" or swelling lines (raised like mosquito bites) on the skin.. along the marks of any attempt to press hard or "write" on the skin. Antihistamines help.

Whether or not this is the problem.. you should work at it slower, as your body is trying to tell you something :-)

zappaz1@excite.com

From: [unknown] Sent: July 8, 2000 Message 3 of 11

Hello...I have a bit of advice for you on the way your partner goes at it....

Get some gloves...get some lube...make sure you are ready...like engage in some heavy foreplay...and then start slow and small and go slow all the way to the end of you fisting session...do not let him rush you through this...it has got to be done slowly...and you will enjoy it...the gloves and lube make the entry much smoother...more so than just using a hand with lube.

I have tried this both bare-handed and with the gloves...the gloves win in my book...no swelling and no soreness...just pure pleasure!!

Give this a try...I bet you will find the same results!!

Gayle

PS...don't forget and small vibrator for your clit..WOW!!

From: vicobi Sent: July 10, 2000 Message 4 of 11

Here are some other things to consider too... I have allergic reactions to the ingredients in some lubes and I'm allergic to latex. My labs swell after just a little fingering, the muscles seem to clamp shut, and getting a fist in is impossible when I use the wrong lube and/or latex.

From: [unknown] Sent: July 11, 2000 Message 5 of 11

Well...

Then you need to buy a few small samples...if you can ...and do a skin test with the lubes...and then try to find a way to take your time with your partner....DO NOT RUSH IT...this will cause MAJOR chaffing of the skin and swelling...it will hurt like hell for DAYS!!!

I'm allergic to adhesive on bandages...so I know what you mean...not sure what you can do about that...maybe Zappaz can help you with that!!

Good luck!!

PS...by "take your time"....I mean ...really make it last...I like it when it lasts upwards of 2 hours...and I have had it that way...that is THE BEST!!

From: zappaz1 Sent: July 12, 2000 Message 6 of 11

You might try various substances applied on band aids and leave them on the skin (usually abdomen) to see if you "break out" from that substance.

That way, you will know what you are allergic to and can avoid it. Antihistamines are the only safe long term thing to use as the corticosteroids are often dangerous unless supervised by a doctor.

If you are allergic to one type of tape, try band aids or tape made from other types of materials.. as they have several types (ask your druggist).

Allergies are the "Bane of Humanity" but greedy Dermatologists just love them. lol

Along that line, I saw a bumper snicker that said:

"EAT MORE CANDY..... Will Drill, dentist"

lol

zappaz1@excite.com

From: [unknown] Sent: July 12, 2000 Message 7 of 11

Hey, I thought of sonething else that might help...

Last time I had this problem...the swelling and chaffing...I used some vaginal cream...like you would use for a yeast infection...and it helped to bring the swelling down and healed alot quicker. I believe that hydrocortisone cream will also help...what do you think Zappaz???

PS...I'm a Pharmacy Tech...and have been since I was 20!!

From: zappaz1 Sent: July 12, 2000 Message 8 of 11

Yeast (or monilia) infections should not have much to do with the swelling unless there is a itching rash and a white discharge... in that case those medications would help.

The hydrocortisone or any corticosteroid vaginal creams help, but most of the better ones require a Rx, and would require seeing a doctor. The reason is that some of those materials are absorbed and can cause side effects, as well as overgrowth of yeast and slower healing of infections.

It is always important to know if you are diabetic, as those tend to have more such problems.

Good luck, but see a doctor if you still have problems.

zappaz1@excite.com

From: sexytexaskitten Sent: July 12, 2000 Message 9 of 11

OK all I have tried the gloves ...no dice
I have tried the antihistamine, taking antihistamines that didn't work either but ... Do y'all think it might be related to my regular allergies? I never had allergies until I moved to North Texas...but they are to the point now that I use an inhaler. Maybe I should just wait until the end of allergies season. I am also begining to wonder if I am just one of those people who will never take a fist. We have been working at it for 2 years now. ( but it sure is fun to try)

From: sexytexaskitten Sent: July 12, 2000 Message 10 of 11

Not a Diabetic... But i really don't think I want to use over the counter meds unless I need them. As much as I want to do this I am not what you would call much of a med. taker that includes the drugs that are perscription...I wait forever to take those and they effect my breathing! But thanks

From: zappaz1 Sent: July 12, 2000 Message 11 of 11

Kitten, you are correct that some can not do this.. and some (that have major problelms) should not even try. Most of those will have very definite reasons they can not do it. Allergies, age, hormones, scar tissue, and dozens of other things.. could be a reason.

As most ladies have a much larger pelvic opening than just one fist, most can do it if they take their time and are persistent. Normal tissue will usually stretch. Some take minutes.. others have to work at it weeks, months, or even longer. If it causes much discomfort, stop and see a Doctor.

Good luck,