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Message: Please, tell me something about orgasm

From: Bojan1961 Sent: January 23, 2000 Message 1 of 8

Hello.
As many members, I'm also very happy to find your club. Discussions and files totally reverse my opinion on fisting. For manny years fisting was very arousing to me, but limited only to porno industry. Your discoussions convinced me that this is not so.
After that i talked to my wife about this and she agreed to try. We bought some books about G-spot and fisting and do it by the book. In one month we acchive to put in vagina four fingers and knickles without a thumb, and we are still trying. I seem that hand will not be such problem such as handling the orgasm. This is the reason I write this letter to your club. I thing you are the right persons to give me some answers or hints.
My wife accieve only clitoral orgasms by now. When orgasm was a little different, it happens after i accidentally stimulate G-spot with my penis. She told me that this is good, but there are also some strange contractions of muscles in her mounth and arms.
Now, when I attencionaly stimulate her G-spot with three or four fingers, the muscle contractions become harder and additional pressure in chest appears. We realized that earlyer feeling was pushed by g-spot orgasm or something like that. This feeling appears after clitoral orgasm and it is not pleasent such as it. Contraction in mounth muscles pushes her in position like saying "UUUU" or less "OOOO". Contractions in arms stretches her fingers. This contractions is supported by tingling.
We think, that this orgasm was not yet real g-spot orgasm. This was only the begining of achieving this type of orgasm.
But now she is (or we are) afraid that this type of contractions become even more intense when we achieve orgasm with entire hand. What if this contractions will not convert to pleasnt one .... ?
English is my second language, and I'm not so handy with it. I hope you understand our problem, and also hope you will give me some answers, suggestions, or recommend me some book where is orgasms explained. I'm looking forward to it.

Thank you very much.
Bojan

From: Joe-CindyAndJoe Sent: January 23, 2000 Message 2 of 8

Bojan,

If I understand you right, you are worried about your wife's orgasms becoming TOO strong?

Hmmm, never heard of this concern before. I'll ask Cindy what she thinks tomorrow.

Are there any of the ladies here who have an opinion on this question?

Yours,
Joe

From: Cindy-CindyAndJoe Sent: January 24, 2000 Message 3 of 8

Hi Bojan,

What I understand the problem to be is that your wife, during (or approaching?) strong orgasms, is experiencing various contractions that are not pleasurable.

I've never heard of anything like this before, so I'm afraid that I can't offer any advice or comments.

Zappaz, do you have any knowledge on this subject? Or any other members?

Yours,
Cindy

PS. Thanks for saying you like our club :-)

From: zappaz1 Sent: January 24, 2000 Message 4 of 8

Bojan, the contractions you describe fit "Hyperventilation Syndrome".

Just have her breathe into a paper sac afterward... or have her breathe slower and less deeply to avoid the problem.

The rapid deep breathing makes the blood more alkaline and thus causes the contractions.

zappaz1@excite.com

From: some_sweetness Sent: February 10, 2000 Message 5 of 8

Looks like we never heard back from Bojan... how did it go? I've never before heard of this either and I'm curious to see how it went

Genna

From: NastyKate Sent: February 10, 2000 Message 6 of 8

I have been involved with fisting for 4 years and found that in the beginning the intensity of the orgasm was so intense I wasn't sure it was ok - my pussy contracts so hard you can see it from the top of my mound down. I have more intense clitorial orgasms then vaginal and from fisting am able to have a complete orgasm vaginally. When stimulating my clit at the same time it is incredible, having both at the same time. It is a full body orgasm. G spot orgasms are and can be more vaginal too, this is probably why she isn't sure if it is pleasure or pain, it almost feels like you are bursting and having to urinate at the same time.

From: Bojan1961 Sent: March 18, 2000 Message 7 of 8

Hello everybody !
I'm very sorry, that i didn't reply sooner at your help. First of all, I have to thanks Zappaz. He's advices were very helpful.
When my wife breathe slower and less deeply, unpleasent contractions are not apearing. Now she have to focus on breathing, so we still didn't acchieve G-spot orgasm. By fisting, we are still at four fingers and knickels, or five fingers without knickles, and still trying (we have to handle breathing also). Now we are at problem which Kate mentioned, pleasure, bursting, having to urinate, ..., but our previous problems were not this kind.
Thank you again Zappaz, and others for help.

Bojan

From: [unknown] Sent: August 9, 2000 Message 8 of 8

Bojan...

It also sounds to me like your wife is having mulitple orgasms...which is something that can be quite intense..especially the first time it is experienced...I remember screaming at the top of my lungs....STOP!!!...I just couldn't take it for long..winded me something awful...but it does get better...have you tried using gloves and lube to get the rest of you hand inside....this was a very helpful idea...makes it whole process much smoother...and leaves the skin less chapped.

Good luck!!

Gayle