Message:   Vaginal, Anal, or Otherwise

From: zappaz1     Sent: December 1, 1999     Message 1 of 2

This group seems well balanced as to topics of discussion and to me seems to cater to heterosexual couples like Cindy and Joe.

Anal fisting is not nearly as safe from a medical standpoint due to the many potential things that can go wrong. It is nice that most of the discussion so far has been about vaginal fisting. Possibly this group will benefit more from specializing in vaginal fisting and leaving anal fisting to the many gay groups available.

Many women still like some anal stimulation which does not usually require fisting anally. When doing this, it is better not to switch from anal stimulation over to vaginal using the same toys, penis or fingers. This is because the fecal transfer can sometimes cause bladder and other infections.

Someone posted about putting the lower face into the vaginal opening. That is sometimes pleasant to both participants, especially when the opening is quite large. In the past it was a fairly common practice to blow with strong air pressure into the vagina while doing this. It was later discovered that there were rare cases where doing this "during pregnancy" let air enter into the venous blood supply inside the uterus and caused "air embolus" (possibly even fatal air embolus). At present blowing air, other than into balloons, is not recommended as a form of vaginal stimulation.

Some couples like facesiting as a form of stimulation and with mutual cooperation can be a pleasant variant of vaginal stimulation. Usually this is not dangerous except where the lady is very huge.