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Message: Best position

From: niplvr Sent: 5 Sep. 2001 Message 1 of 7

What is the best position for fisting? The other night we almost got there. It was a real turn on!
I also noticed that when my wife uses a vibrator that her vaginal muscles really tighten up. Would this limit her ability for stretching and possibly prevent or hinder fisting?

Thanks

From: Joe Sent: 6 Sep. 2001 Message 2 of 7

niplvr,

> What is the best position for fisting?

I think this is individual. If you read Cindy's first "story" you can see that we tried both doggy position and with Cindy lying on her back, and it worked best for us with Cindy lying on her back. It may help to have a pillow under your wife's behind.

> I also noticed that when my wife uses a vibrator that her vaginal muscles really tighten up.

I'm not sure exactly what you mean. My experience is that a woman's muscles tighten up until she achieves orgasm, and then they relax again, either immediately or after a little while. So if you wife can achieve multiple orgasms it helps for her to have several orgasms during foreplay and during the insertion of the fingers, so she is very relaxed when you attempt to insert your whole hand.

From: Jal Sent: 26 May 2002 Message 3 of 7

Joe (or anybody why cares to comment),

> So if you wife can achieve multiple orgasms it helps for her to ...

I hope you don't mind me responding to you message in an 'off topic' way, but part of it interests me. I've always thought that all women we able to achieve multiple orgasms (and men too) - though some more easily than others, it's just a matter of how well you know each other. Am I wrong in this belief (I married my first and only girlfriend so I've never put my belief to the test).

Just curious to know whether I'm ignorant on this matter or no.

From: Joe Sent: 26 May 2002 Message 4 of 7

I once had a fairly long relationship with a woman who only achieved one orgasm during lovemaking, and in fact only 2-3 times a week, even though we usually made love every day. In other words, most of the times we made love she didn't achieve orgasm at all, although she enjoyed the lovemaking anyway. Her body was somewhat masculine in build and I assumed that had something to do with her low orgasm ability. But maybe I just wasn't the right lover for her?

Does anyone else have opinions on this?

Joe

From: moke Sent: 26 May 2002 Message 5 of 7

Hey there, I just thought I would say that my wife only cums once, and after that she doesn't want to be touched or messed with in anyway. Her actions, and the things she says, leads me to belive she doesn't care if she cums each time we make love. Those of you that have a woman that can enjoy orgasams many times are luckly. And yeah, I sometimes wonder if I was a better lover would she be able to do more herself.

From: Jal Sent: 26 May 2002 Message 6 of 7

Joe and Moke,

I don't think it's about being a great lover (there's no such thing, only great couples). In the begining of our relationship we had difficulty bringing each other to orgasm, we had great fun but didn't cum, and it didn't seem to matter. 5 years later with a lot of experimenting and open communication we both can have multiple orgasms - but thats not the goal of our love making, whatever happens happens.

Maybe we are just lucky, being so comfortable and relaxed with each other seems to be the key for us.

Moke,

There are times when my wife cums and then won't want to be toched anymore, but that donts mean thats her limit - she went more than 15 once and lost count after that :) (the electric toothbrush incident)

From: Tyjardia Sent: 16 June 2002 Message 7 of 7

Niplvr,

I have found the best position for me in on all fours. Elbows supporting, the small of my back ' dipping and bottom thrust up and out, knees a comfortable (not not too wide appart). My gilfriend prefers laying on her back, with a pillow or two under her bottom, knees drawn up a way and open.

We normally aim to have a minimum of two orgasms before trying to take a hand, but the more the better because we become more relaxed. It is also best to spend a long time just fingering, nothing more, just working very wet fingers slowly and gently in and out, around and around. Work them deeply, and also just around the vaginal entrance. It is amazing how so few people use their fingers enough when they are THE most versitile tools for sex !

We have a friend who says that she prefers to lay on her side, knees bent, with the top most leg bent a little more toward the chest. She then reaches back, grabbing the flesh of her cheek and drawing it open. We have tried this, but niether of us could use it. Her girlfriend likes to stand and then sink down onto her gf's up-raised arm. I tried this but when I come with a hand inside me it is pretty intense and my legs tend to buckle under me, and I do not want to break or injure my girlfriends arm.

Regards

Tyjardia Annika
tyjardia@hotmail.com
www.tyjardia.com