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Message: Vagina Inquiry

From: Melanie Sent: 17 Dec. 2001 Message 1 of 4

Dear Cindy & Joe,

My spouse and I have begun trying to insert large objects (high heel and various dress shoes) into me. It is sort of painful right now and I was wondering if you know of an over-the-counter type of cream or lotion that acts like a local freezing (like Anbesol for you gums and teeths acts)? I would like to please my husband but we need to work on the initial stretching. He also wants to move to fisting and even inserting his foot. Thanks for any advice.

Melanie

From: Joe Sent: 18 Dec. 2001 Message 2 of 4

Dear Melanie,

I would not recommend any kind of anesthetic for this kind of sexual activity. In general, pain is the body's way of telling us that something is dangerous or is going wrong, and I don't think it's a good idea to try to suppress these signals. Instead it would be better to refrain from the activities that are painful.

The vagina is very sensitive and somewhat vulnerable to damage. Cindy performs amazing stretching feats which I find very exciting, but we never do anything which causes her pain. Cindy will not play with any large object that has a hard surface like a glass bottle - she says that her skin gets pinched between the object and her bones and that hurts. Occasionally she's ignored this kind of pain and the usual result is that she has a "bruise" in her vaginal wall which takes several days to go away.

My suggestion is that you and your husband try to play with stretching activities that don't involve hard objects and don't give you any pain, if this is possible. Later, when your vagina has been stretched some, you can try the objects again.

If it's not possible, then perhaps your body is not "suitable" for these kinds of activities, in which case the two of you can hopefully find other ways of pleasing each other sexually. Remember that sex should be fun and pleasurable for both parties.

Yours,
Joe

From: Melanie Sent: 22 Dec. 2001 Message 3 of 4

Thanks for your advice. I think I am ready for the activity but just experience some pain from doing so. We will keep trying and let you know. Thanks.

From: kettlebelly Sent: 20 Aug. 2004 Message 4 of 4

Speaking from experiance, the best thing you can do is start slow and small. take your time and don't rush. it took us like two months to work up from a regular sized dildo to where my wife could finally take my fist. besides these recomendations you can use a good lube (astro glide) and a rubber glove. another thing you can try is starting with a small dildo and add more one at a time while you are streaching out. plus my wife says it helps a lot to when shes extra excited