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Message: Just getting started.

From: mandyln2001 Sent: 30 Aug. 2001 Message 1 of 10

Hey there,
We are new to this site, I have been reading some posts, before leaving one. My husband and I just learned about fisting a few weeks ago, but looking at some of the sites, it looked very interesting, so we tried it and like it but was wanting to ask a few questions. The main one I guess is I have never had an vaginal orgasam and want to try different things, has any one had this problem and started fisting and could achieve one, we have only fisted twice actually, and yesterday we did it the most, once he got his hand inside, it was much easier to put it in and out, is there a cirtian technique to it, although it felt good I still didn't have a orgasam, or am I trying too hard? This is the first site that we have been to for fisting, and I haven't covered half of it, I would appreciate anyones input, thanks.
Mandy

From: Cindy Sent: 30 Aug. 2001 Message 2 of 10

Dear Mandy,

My experience is that a vaginal orgasm is not something one tries for specifically. For me it just happened, rather unexpectedly, the first time. This was long before I started fisting, but long after I started my sexual experiences.

For me it feels like vaginal orgasms originate in the G-spot, and that's where I need to be stimulated for it to happen. Fisting is one way of stimulating the G-spot, but there are other ways - fingers, dildos, a suitably sized penis, etc. Play around and take it easy and don't try too hard.

If you've read my first "story" you know that I can get really strong orgasms that are a combination of clitoral and vaginal, by rubbing my clitoris while I'm being fisted. Highly recommended :-)

Best wishes,
Cindy

From: mandyln2001 Sent: 31 Aug. 2001 Message 3 of 10

Hey Cindy, and thanks for responding to my post, and yes I have read your post, I have a cousin that is in the middle of a divorce and she has told me that the whole time they were married she didn't have an orgasam, and she has recently been with someone and told me that she had multible orgasams with him, so I wonder what my problem is. I can have one with a viborator and my hand but haven't anyother way, and it doesn't have anything to do with my husband it is just me I guess, anyway, thanks, and another thing is that I can't seem to get to your videos on the free drive, I regestered and all but when I try to go to the videos it gets stuck or something, maybe I am doing something wrong, just wondering if anyone else is having these same problems.
Mandy

From: Joe Sent: 31 Aug. 2001 Message 4 of 10

Mandy,

In my opinion sexuality, especially female sexuality, is very individual. My ex-wife could only achieve one orgasm, and only twice a week. Most other women I've known can achieve multiple orgasms, some only two or at most three, some like Cindy 10- 20 (when she's in the mood). There was one woman who achieved a series of diminishing orgasms, the first one quite strong followed almost immediately by one a bit weaker, then another a bit weaker, until they petered out after 5-6 orgasms.

You haven't mentioned how old you are. There's general agreement that a lot of women don't get into their sexual prime until they're in their 40's. Cindy has told me that she never achieved orgasm with a man until she was 30 or so - until then it was only masturbation that gave her orgasms. When Cindy and I met she was around 43, and was surprised to discover that she had become multi-orgasmic and that she could achieve orgasm much easier than previously.

My advice, like Cindy's, is to do whatever feels good for you, and not worry so much about what other women are able to do.

From: mandyln2001 Sent: 05 Sep. 2001 Message 5 of 10

Hey Joe and Cindy,
I am 33 yrs old and my husband is 35, we have been married for 12yrs and together for 14, we love to try new things and I like this better than my husband actually, but he loves it because I do, he says that it is erotic but I can tell that he really does it for me.
I read Cindys other story today, and it was very good, I know that it will just take time to get where ya'll are, for some reason I am intreaged with fisting.
I, for some reason can not open up the videos on free drive, I have internet explorer 5.5 and media player, 7.0 is there another way I can view then?
And Cindy I think you have a great body considering you have a child and you are 55.
We just want to put some spice in our sex sessions, and this is deffinatly spice, I have a couple of questions for Cindy, one, I have been thinking about getting my clit and hood pierced, what is your opinion on that, I know you have your lips done, are you planing to get any more done? And you look so clean shaveing, is that because you do use the electric razor? Well I will chat with you guys later, have a good one.
Mandy

From: Joe Sent: 06 Sep. 2001 Message 6 of 10

Mandy,

Hope it's OK if I answer, also on Cindy's behalf. She's very busy these days.

The version of IE and Windows Media Player you have should be OK. You say that you can't open the video clips on FreeDrive, but you don't say exactly what goes wrong. If you get a message saying the download limit has been exceeded, then there's nothing you can do except wait until the time indicated and then try again. If you have some other problem then I don't know what to say. An alternative way of getting the video clips from FreeDrive is to download and install their FD Desktop program.

As for getting your clitoris pierced, that is definitely not recommended. For one thing there are so many nerves there that it would be unbelievably painful. Even more important, the nerves might get messed up and you would lose some sensitivity in your clitoris. I don't think there are any responsible piercers who will perform this piercing.

Your clitoris hood, if it's large enough, is a good place for a piercing.

Cindy is not planning on getting any more piercings. She thinks the four she has in her inner lips are enough.

And yes, we use an electric razor when Cindy gets shaved.

From: Elo Sent: 13 Sep. 2001 Message 7 of 10

Hei Cindy

We a couple in the beginning of playing with fisting. We find it very erotic, and will certainly keep on explorer new things in this "game"....

We are searching for the right size of an inflatable dildo, because a the moment she is barely capable of taken a hand, and we very a little afraid of a gargantula will be too large as a starter..

Can you advise us ??

We live in Denmark, if you happen to know any shops there.

Thanks for a great site, we love it alots….

Best regards

Elo

From: Cindy Sent: 16 Sep. 2001 Message 8 of 10

Hello Elo,

I'm afraid I can't come up with any expert advice on inflatables. The Gargantula is the only one we've tried, and I would agree that it is probably too big for you, since it needs to be inflated to a certain point before it is stiff enough to be inserted.

I think your best move is to go a store and have a look at what is available. If there is one near you, that is...

Best wishes,

Cindy

From: Joe Sent: 31 Oct. 2001 Message 9 of 10

I just bought a new toy for Cindy: a "micro basketball". It's about the same size in diameter as the mini-football that was featured in the video clips cindyv10.mpg and cindyv11.mpg, but since it's totally round the inflation point is accessable when partly inserted into the vagina. At least that's my hopes. We haven't tried it yet, but I'll keep you all posted.

From: Mike&Sue Sent: 31 Oct. 2001 Message 10 of 10

Denber has a bunch of inflatables and they list the sizes on their site, so you can choose the one right for you.

Happy pumping.