Message:   Depth

From: Thomas Ghia     Sent: 23 Feb. 2001     Message 1 of 4

Hi Cindy and Joe and everyone,

I´ve been following the discussions of this club since its Excite days, though only now I have decided to become a member. The reason why I never joined is that Cindy and Joe wanted members to be active (which I find most reasonable) and I wasn´t ready to send any material (and I still don´t have anything, apart from the question below). Allowing non-members to read the messages and see the pictures was a very wise way to keep passersby away.

My girlfriend and I have been trying stretching and fisting for a couple of weeks now. Although we try it with much gusto, we´re a bit far way from real fisting. At the moment I can insert four fingers past the knuckles. We´ve reached this point quite effortlessly up, from just two fingers in the beginning. With all the information I got from this site (thank you so much!) sex has been a joy, confident and relaxed; thank you all again.

Now here comes the problem. The most common problem with fisting is related to the hand´s girth, i.e., it won´t fit the vagina. Well, my girfriend´s vagina seems to be too short. We feel it´s easier to insert the fingers if I position my hand against the back wall of her pussy (she stretches better this way), but she finds it more pleasurable when I push my fingers aganist the upper wall. Either way, it´s too short and I can´t really work my four fingers inside her because of this. From I what I have read, the cervix is out, so I ´m not sure how to go further. Can you help me find the right way?

Thomas Ghia