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From: Lori Sent: 16 July 2001 Message 1 of 8

Hello. My name is Lori, and my husband and I've have been fisting for a couple of years now. It was something that just happened one night. Its not something that we worked at, I just found I was able to take his whole fist. He told me about the site he's found and I just had to come and see it for myself. Its so refreshing to find others that have the same interests as ourselves.

We haven't really ever gone any further than his one fist. After talking to my husband, we both told each other we'd like to try more. I'd really like to see if I can work my way to bigger things. As my husband posted, I love having a balloon inside me but have found that if I'm stretched any larger in my opening it is just too painful.

There are a couple of things that we are looking for, and I hope, that maybe someone on this site can help.

Firstly, I'd really like to see some fisting videos. But I hate the hardcore videos we've seen. Everyone who has tried this knows that it isn't always the same as in the videos. Sometimes I have to say stop, sometimes I say ouch, and sometimes after I climax, my pussy makes some embarrasing sounds. I guess what I'm asking is if anyone knows of videos which are real. I'd love to watch a video a real couple going through the same sorts of things we are trying. I'd also like a bit of direction telling me what I can do to take more.

The second thing I'm interested in is trying to find a truly enlargeable didldo. I like the idea of adding pens or candles and working that way, but think I might be better if I could just slowly start inflating something in my opening to get it larger. I think if I could work on it gradually, I wouldn't have any more pain.

Lastly, I have a personal question. Is it best to have something large left in my vagina to help stretch it, or just work at it a few minutes each day? Does it help to leave something inside myself?

I'm sorry for all the questions, and this long posting, but I'm really hoping someone can help me out.

Thanks so much!
Lori.

From: Joe Sent: 16 July 2001 Message 2 of 8

Lori,

> I guess what I'm asking is if anyone knows of videos which are real.

Sorry, I'm only aware of fisting videos that are intended to provide excitement to horny men, i.e., pornographic videos, not instructional.

> The second thing I'm interested in is trying to find a truly enlargeable didldo.

The inflatable gargantula from Denber is the one for you. See the other message thread about it ("Where can I buy an inflatable in the UK?"). There is also a link in the Links section.

> Is it best to have something large left in my vagina to help stretch it, or just work at it a few minutes each day? Does it help to leave something inside myself?

I don't really know if this would be a good idea. Be aware of the problems of becoming too loose, like the possibility of lack of bladder control. This has been discussed recently ("Stopping Kegels?") and there is some info in the Excite Club Archives section.

Don't leave anything in your vagina that could nurture a bacteria problem. There's something called toxic shock syndrome which you probably know more about than me. Yeast infections could perhaps also result if you leave something in your vagina that could upset the pH balance.

From: Joe Sent: 16 July 2001 Message 3 of 8

Lori,

Forgot to say thank you for the pictures. It will be very interesting following your progress!

From: Lori Sent: 17 July 2001 Message 4 of 8

Well, I have to say thanks to everyone again. I appreciate the advise. The only thing I've been able to find on the inflatable dildo is the one that is 13" long and it quite wide to begin with.

We need some business men in the group! I need someone to invent a dildo which would start off at maybe 2" across and grow to 8" across.

Tonight we are going to play with golf balls. My husband wants to see how may will fit. I have no idea! We've got 24 balls, it would be exciting if I could get them all in, but we'll have to see. If the pictures turn out, I'll be sure to get them posted.

We're still on the quest for the blood pressure pump. We checked our local pharmacy and were told that they have to be puchased from a medical supply store.... so, the search goes on!

From: zappaz1 Sent: 18 July 2001 Message 5 of 8

Lori,

You might be a cadidate for fairly large stretching, but naturally you should gradually do everything in a enjoyable manner.

If you wish good tone, use Kegels.

The fact that you did not need preperation for fisting is wonderful. I have seen many who are that way and they are usually able to progress farther.

You have to base your expectations on your potential, so do not forget to try to stay withing the limits of your boney opening. Extremely few would have the potential to go to the 8" across size you mention. I have only have seen a couple out of several thousands with a pelvis that extremely large.

Just be content with what you are able to do-- and do it gradually but steadily for progress.

Thank you for your nice posts and keep us informed of your progress, as others may learn from your wonderful experience.

From: Lori Sent: 18 July 2001 Message 6 of 8

Yes, you are right. But my thinking is that I have to aim for something. If I never make it thats ok, but it gives us pleasure trying to get to that goal. Of course, if it hurts, we stop.

I've never done nor heard or the Kegels, but I will look at them. At this point I'm still very tight until aroused and have had no problems.

I still think the idea of the inflatable is ideal. It would allow me to gradually increase the size as I feel able. The gradual increase in size is what I need, as I am very tight whenever we start. This is why I need something that will start off quite small. I also don't like using several different objects, as it kills the mood for me, so finding something that would grow with my mood is most ideal.

Again, thanks so much for the advise and comments. It is so wonderful to have found a site where I can feel comfortable and not part of some freak show.

From: Satyros Sent: 18 July 2001 Message 7 of 8

Im' not quite satisfied with the answer regarding witch way is the best to stretch the opening further, is to leave something inside for a long period, or just for a few moments...
There was no conclusive answer....
Zappaz, you might be the expert here, what do you mean about this ?? -Or enyone else who tried, for that matter... ?

I'd reeeeeally like to know, 'cause i'm playing with some quite inexperinced girls at the moment. *grin* (single again, he he)

I love this place.
Satyros (aka WeirdLabs)

From: zappaz1 Sent: 20 July 2001 Message 8 of 8

Satyros, I know those who have tried both methods and the problem with leaving things in a long time is I think it might interfere with vaginal tone created by using Kegels. I will have to write a long discussion of this subject when I get back in a week or so. Zappaz