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Message: Frequency

From: Thomas Ghia Sent: 17 July 2001 Message 1 of 3

My girlfriend and I have been toying with stretching for a while. The ultimate goal is fisting, but we're not in a hurry and the stretching play happens only occasionally (say, once a fortnight). On such occasions, when she's really kinky, I'm able to insert four fingers. I noticed, however, that each time is like the first time, i.e., it feels as if she had never been stretched at all. I know four fingers are no big deal by the community's standards, but that's what she is able to take and I don't want to push her too much (physically and emotionally). Anyway, do you think we should do it more often, so that we don't have to start from zero every time?

ps - I've found some very nice stories at ASSTR site linked here. It takes some gold-mining to find them, but it's worth it.

From: Kayser Soze Sent: 18 July 2001 Message 2 of 3

The wife and I have been fisting for a rather short time (year). We do it occationally, week or two weeks in between. And she is still rather tight when we start. Four fingers stretch her a little, and we have to work up to it some. So, yeah, if four fingers is her maximum right now, each and every time she'll probably be around the same tightness. As far as push her too much (physically and emotionally), just make sure you communicate well, and find out what SHE wants.

Soze

From: zappaz1 Sent: 18 July 2001 Message 3 of 3

Thomas, you may just have to gradually do this over a period of months.

At those times she allows stretching, possibly just pressing downward with as many fingers as _fit in_ for a "long time" would help relax her-- see some of my posts on this. Pressing downward there is all the possible room of the pelvic boney opening to stretch into. Pressing upward with pressure is only against the pubic bone and will accomplish nothing in the way of new stretching (unless of course the pubic bone has been removed).

Sometimes the top of the pelvic boney opening is missing for very rare conditions. Congenital is quite rare and I have not seen a case. Sometimes the boney top of the opening is removed for severe pain from pubic osteitis-- a type of arthritis of the pubic joint.

I have only seen a couple of cases of that where the pubis was removed for cancer surgery and the vagina would stretch upward, as there was no bone to stop it. I think surgical pubic bone removal is the theory of the big vagina I discussed in the "Clips" post below that I posted.

That may still be a questionable video, as adult head insertions are very rare-- and something about that video clip makes me think it might be a fake-- even though the adult video called "All New Freaks of Nature" that the clip was taken from won first prize in its category of adult videos.

I have only seen very big vaginas in very big women... LOL