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Message: Help I can't seem to stretch my wife any further...

From: Chris & Sarah Sent: 29 May 2001 Message 1 of 5

Hi Community,

I wondered if anybody could help us as we seem to have got stuck (not literally, thank God!). We have gradually been stretching my wife's pussy for the last 6 months and now can get a dildo into her which is 8.5" in circumference. However for the last 3-4 sessions we have noticed that she seems to have reached her limit.

She is great, really patient and doesn't mind a bit of pain if we can get her big enough for me to slip my fist into her. Like a lot of couples this is the final goal.

Also can anyone offer us some advise of werid object insertion as we have both been looking at some of the objects which people have inserted but also wondered if there is any way of making sure that things like cans don't get stuck.

Thanks

Chris & Sarah

From: carlo7 Sent: 30 May 2001 Message 2 of 5

Hi Chris and Sarah,

I read your post with interest because my wife and I have been stretching her for about a month and although I can't be of much help in stretching Sarah further I was wondering if you could tell me what size circumference dildo you started with and how long it took to get her to 8.5 inches? My wife is finally getting to the point where our 7 inch circumference toy is slidng in and out easily and givng her some real pleasure. It has taken a while but seems to be very worthwhile. During our last session she had such a powerful orgasm she soaked the sheets right thru to the mattress pad. With lots of K-Y I am getting her to the point where my thumb and fingers are inside her and all we have left is the thumb knuckle and I'll be in.

I agree that the thought of a can being stuck inside a cunt is worrisome, but we have considered using an empty can with a string tied to the pop top, just in case. Haven't gotten to that experiment yet, but it is something to look forward to.

Hope others can be of more help and you succeed.

Carlo7

From: niplvr Sent: 30 May 2001 Message 3 of 5

hi - We recently purchased a large inflatable dildo that seems to work wonders. I have expanded it to almost 10" in curcumfrance (3" thick). My wife loves it.

There is some info on vagina stretching & message techniques in the club archives that you may find useful. I tried it and it seems to work. I have been useing the fingers, dildo, more fingers, bigger dildo method with some success. Havent gotten to actual fisting yet but its fun trying.

Good luck!

From: Chris & Sarah Sent: 30 May 2001 Message 4 of 5

Hi carlo7, niplvr and rest of community,

Thanks for the replies so far, in answer to your question carlo7 about what we started with, we used a dildo with a 6" circumference. Gradually built up to the 8.5" over the last 6 months. About 2-3 months ago she was able to take the 8.5" dildo with relative easy. Since then I have had to resort to my hand but am only able to get my fingers and thumb up to the knuckles. She has suffered a few tears and a bit of pain but she is great about it as it gives her so much pleasure most of the time.

niplvr (or anyone for that matter) where do you get a inflatable dildo from as I have looked at the UK sex shop websites but have been unable to find one.

Thanks

Chris & Sarah
royalgreen@btinternet.com

From: Chris & Julie Sent: 31 May 2001 Message 5 of 5

Further to our 'Grand Opening' introduction message from a while back and a relevant to this topic; we were in the same situation as mentioned above and it took us 2-years to finally 'get in' properly.

Emphasis has been made on lubrication by Joe, Zappaz, et al and this for no small reason. We took a bottle of Astroglide on vacation with us and we may as well as left it home for all the success it gave. Granted, it may work for others but a good slippery-slimey consistency is the best for us ... and lots of it (don't save quantity and wreck the ultimate quality).

We have also devised our 'turning-the-doorknob' technique' (named by Julie), i.e. when arriving at the knuckle blocking stage, very gently and slowly turn the hand clockwise to slip in (with loads of lube around the hand). This is based on right-handed fisting with her reclining in the across the couch with pulled-up legs spread before me.

BTW, I found those pictures of beer-can insertion (was that Raven's lady?) incredibly erotic and have yet to convince my partner of trying (or training) to do that. I am just eternally grateful that I have a woman who, after more than 15-years together, is still amazing me with her sexuality and fabulous capabilities.

Keep up the good work Joe & Cindy and Zappaz. We are grateful to you for thisWebsite.