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Message: Almost but not quite

From: P and M Sent: 09 May 2001 Message 1 of 3

We introduced ourselves a few months ago and asked for some advice which was duly supplied by Joe. After checking out the site and having lots of fun with dildos and inflatables, Mandy decided it was time to try fisting again.
With Mandy on her back my hand hits her pelvis before she is even stretched.
With Mandy on all fours I held by arm still and let her move backwards and forwards slowly taking more each time. She managed to get right up to my knuckles but was at her limit (too much pain and not enough pleasure).
She was uncomfortable for a few days afterwards, but is now fine. What we would like to know is if we try again do we start from the same point or is her pussy likely to be looser than it was last time. Paul

What I want to know is how much pain should I expect to get before Paul manages to get his fist up or should this be pain free? Mandy

From: Joe Sent: 09 May 2001 Message 2 of 3

Hi Paul and Mandy,

Glad to hear that you've been having fun. That's the important part.

I'm not sure I understand your question, Paul. But I think you're using a good technique, since Mandy is in control of how far you go. When getting into fisting I wouldn't say that the pussy gets "looser" with each attempt - it's more a process whereby the pussy muscles get used to being stretched more and more, but that doesn't necessarily result in them getting loose - they can still contract just as much as long as they get exercised regularly.

So my advice is to keep trying, once or twice a week, and see if you don't slowly but surely get a little bit deeper with each attempt. It may take months, but that's OK as long as you're enjoying the process.

As for how much pain should be expected, that's completely up to you. Cindy always said stop as soon as she started to experience pain. Maybe you can get faster results by accepting some pain during the stretching process, but why rush things? My advice would be to take it slower and not accept any pain. If you can achieve multiple orgasms, Mandy, then this makes it easier, as the body releases some hormones (can't remember what they're called right now) during sexual excitement which suppress pain to some extent.

Good luck.

Joe

From: P and M Sent: 13 May 2001 Message 3 of 3

Joe, thanks for taking the time to reply to our questions, it is reassuring that other people out there enjoy the same things as we do and some even have the same problems. Paul and I will keep trying and let you now when we succeed, but most of all we are having a lot of fun. Mandy