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Message:
Playing In The Mud
From: Chris & Julie Sent: 28 Mar. 2001 Message 1 of 3
I hesitate discussing this subject in fear of upsetting the faint-hearted (are there any here?) but would like to determine if others participate in an activity that my wife and I describe as "playing in the mud" or otherwise known as ‘vaginal fisting during menstruation’.
It is not so much that we schedule a fisting session in accordance with her menstrual cycle but that we continue business-as-usual with our sex-life regardless. Although my wife says that I am "a strange person" she says that she is also relieved that her bodily functions are note met with my aversion (as this message may be to some). Indeed, when she started on HRT it seemed that her hormones were so screwed up for a while that she was more ‘on the rag’ than off.
The name came about from during the initial excursion when she compared my lecherous, drooling grunts with a happy child playing in the mud. There is naturally a mess factor to consider but I would think health-wise, the activity would present monogamous couples (who have exchanged as much bodily fluid as we have) with little or no risk.
Any comments?
Chris
From: Cindy Sent: 28 Mar. 2001 Message 2 of 3
Hi Chris & Julie,
Joe and I don't refrain from making love, which sometimes includes fisting, during my period. To cut down on the mess I use a tampon during lovemaking on the worst days. The only problem with this is that sometimes the tampon gets stuck sideways and pushed so far in that I have difficulty extracting it again afterwards.
(I don't use tampons otherwise, prefering sanitary napkins. Tampons can be problematic when used generally - they can dry out the vaginal skin so much that you're more vulnerable to infections.)
Joe assures me that he does not have any negative feelings about playing when I'm having my period. It was Joe's idea that we continue making love all month around, something I've never done with my previous lovers.
Regards,
Cindy
From: zappaz1 Sent: 29 Mar. 2001 Message 3 of 3
Be sure to wash your hands with an antibacterial soap for ten minutes before. Then, more than likely, there should be no problems.
Couples should always wash well and those that don't use gloves need to wash hands "very thoroughly" first. They need to know the sexual history of their partner very very well. Disease otherwise can range from insignificant to deadly AIDS. Monogamy is becoming more important in this day and age.. but fewer and fewer seem to follow that.
Unfortunately Medicine has not kept pace with what is contagious. "Stable" couples, married or not, are much safer!!
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