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Message: Benefits from fisting?

From: Trident Sent: 23 Mar. 2001 Message 1 of 2

Hello friends!

Me and my wife are devoted fistfans and simply love it. But we have a question. Besides the pure joy, are there any physically benefits with our activities?

Maybe this is a Zappas subject. We are reading everything he is writing and do have a big respect in his knowledge and consider us lucky to have him with us here. Thank you Zappas.

Furthermore, Joe and Cindy, thumbs up for your latest pictures. Maybe this is the way to lighten up dull meetings..... =o)

Bye bye / Trident & Orca

From: zappaz1 Sent: 23 Mar. 2001 Message 2 of 2

Trident,

Your question about possible benefits from vaginal fisting is a little complex.. LOL

Naturally the reason for doing it is the mutual and erotic experience.. so this is mostly mental.. as most things sexual are! I think that there is further bonding of couples who do this because of the great need for trust involved. Couples such as Cindy and Joe are very unlikely to part with their closeness and great bonding! The benefits to the lady are often even greater than the man because the majority of ladies who do it eventually start to experience vaginal orgasms. Vaginal orgasms are associated closely with G-spot orgasms and are often longer lasting and more intense than clitoral orgasms. As you probably know ladies tend to have a much greater "range" in their orgasmic response than men (even in intensity, duration and frequency). Men can have some variation, but in many men an orgasm is an orgasm and similar in intensity. The thing that makes fisting better for the man is if he appreciates the orgasms that it brings in the lady and in the erotic nature that adds greatly to the mental aspect. I also suspect that in some couples, the male's thoughts of being more inside his lover and her thoughts of holding him within her leads to an even more erotic variation than standard penile-vaginal sex.

In a round about way all this merely says that, for many, vaginal fisting is a benefit to their relationship and its erotic pleasure.

Now as to physical benefits, that is mostly in making it easier for childbirth with less likelyhood of tears and surgery at that time. Specifically with those who do regular associated Kegels (as many do) it helps with vaginal tone and sometimes with the bladder function. It is often helpful in those who suffer constipation.

In my opinion the physical benefits are outweighed by the mental benefits!!

I an glad to see your nice post and know you will enjoy this activity.