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From: bigfist2 Sent: 30 Aug. 2000 Message 1 of 3
Thank you Cindy and Joe for starting this community it has answered many of my questions on the subject of fisting. Although my wife has tried but as my screen name implys I have a very large hand and she does not want to strech for fear that she will lose sensitivity inside her vagina. Though she has interest in bringing in a 3rd bi-female into our relationship if she can fill our large criteria :) Keep up the good work and thanks again!!
From: Joe Sent: 30 Aug. 2000 Message 2 of 3
Hi, and welcome to the club.
As for your wife's fear of "losing sensitivity", I don't think that can be a problem. Cindy's vagina has become very big, and sometimes I tell her that I can't really feel if my penis is in her or not (this is a bit of an exaggeration, and the idea is actually exciting for me), but she always replies that she can feel me very well.
On the other hand, stretching the vaginal muscles a lot without doing Kegel exercises will result in the muscles losing their tone. This won't affect the vagina's sensitivity but I think it can make it harder for her to achieve orgasm.
So in summary, in my opinion there is no danger of loss of sensitivity. There may be a danger of it becoming more difficult to achieve orgasm, but only if she doesn't do the Kegel exercises.
Joe
From: otticat Sent: 31 Aug. 2000 Message 3 of 3
My wife and I have been fisting for almost 10 years now. I can tell you that your wife should not lose any sensation at all. Just take it slow and don't rush here abilities. It took us over 2 years of trying before we were successful and we still have sessions where she cannot relax enough.
My favorite activity is intercourse right after fisting. Between the lubricants and the looseness, I slide in with no resistance. In my mind its the best sex we have!
Paul
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