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Message: Fisting my wife

From: Jimishere Sent: 15 Mar. 2000 Message 1 of 2

I have been fisting my wifw for about three mnths and do it EVERY time we have sex. She is 5'8" 115 lbs and EASILY take my closed fist. I LOVE it. My quesion is....I want desperately to try 2 hands but I feel a little guilty. Am I doing her wrong? She OBVIOUSLY LOVES being fisted and NEVER complains but we NEVER talk about it. I don't want to bring it up for fear that she will not let me continue our fisting. I am not even sure she knows my whole fist is in her. I assume she does. Please reply, and if you think I should work on two hands, what is the best way to work up to it? I love my wife with all my heart and would never do anything to hurt or demean her, but FISTING her drives me nuts (and her too). Please post your thoughts and thank you very sincerely

From: Joe Sent: 15 Mar. 2000 Message 2 of 2

Hi Jim,

Nice to have a question here - even though it would be even better if you became a member of our Excite club and posted your question there. I don't know if you've taken a look at that club, but there are a lot of messages on the discussion board there, including a couple that are a bit similar to yours and generated a certain amount of feedback.

My advice is that you and your wife should learn to talk about your sex lives. I know that this can be difficult, but believe me, it will make everything much better - not just your sex lives but your whole relationship and marriage and everything else.

Making love with a woman who is openly telling you what she wants you to do and how everything you are doing feels and who tells you when she is coming is fantastic. But it has to work both ways, you have to be willing to communicate to her what you want and how you feel and tell her when you're coming :-)

Once you have gotten into talking together about your sex lives then I think you should discuss whether you want to go for double fisting or not. You could perhaps show your wife some fisting pics and give her Cindy's stories, especially the first one, "Two Hand Are Almost Enough".

> Am I doing her wrong?

It is probably not a good idea for you to fist your wife a lot (and certainly not double fist her) if she is not doing Kegel exercises. This is discussed on our Excite club, and there are some web links there with more information.

Good luck,
Joe