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Message: Stretching, Please Help

From: SwingNCajuns Sent: June 28, 2000 Message 1 of 16

Hello Everyone, My name is Jane and I am interested in stretching my pussy. I however have no idea on the correct way to acheive this. I have read of things like blood pressure cuffs, and things like leaving a dildo in your pussy all day. Is this the correct way to stretch? Please send me any and all info you have avalible. Are there any instructional tapes or books on this? I purchaced a book called "a hand in the bush" about fisting and I cant even achieve this. I also purchaced two dildos, one is 7" around and the other 9" around. I have a hard time with the small one and the big one, theres just no way. I want to be able to do the large objects and HUGE dildos shown on this page. By the way I am 21 years old, married, no children, and pretty big hips so I should be able to open up. Please help me in this new fetish I am taking on as I want to be as big as possible in the shortest amount of time. Many Thanks, Jane Comeaux

Swing N Cajuns@aol.com

From: Joe-CindyAndJoe Sent: June 28, 2000 Message 2 of 16

Hi Jane,

Try reading some of the other messages on this discussion board. Especially one entitled 'Common Question.."How To"' by Zappaz1, which is 3 or 4 messages above this one.

By the way, the e-mail address you are showing is not valid when you write it with embedded blanks. Should it be SwingNCajuns@aol.com ?

Yours,
Joe

From: SwingNCajuns Sent: June 29, 2000 Message 3 of 16

Thanks, I purchaced a blood pressure cuff and I am thinking of using it for atleast 3hours daily, does this sound like a good idea?? I want to stretch out fast. Jane

From: BAdams22 Sent: June 29, 2000 Message 4 of 16

There is a huge butt plug in the Dennio.com section in her toys that does wonders. I bought that and the fake fist at the same time....I had been having trouble finding things to stretch me bigger hoping to get a fist in....well, this huge butt plug did it....I kept sitting on it all day long for a few minutes at a time and by the end of the day I was able to get the fist in...with alot of trying. But then I was able to put in a beer can that was 9 in around before I got the butt plug...so if you can only do 7 it may take you awhile longer...but keep trying...you will do it soon or later...I didn't think I would ever get there...
Good luck
B

From: SwingNCajuns Sent: June 29, 2000 Message 5 of 16

Thanks for the info, I will give it a shot. I also am hoping that this cuff thing works. i think I will be able to put it in under clothing and leave it all day around the house. I cant wait to see my pussy gaping open.... Jane

From: BAdams22 Sent: June 29, 2000 Message 6 of 16

Please show the before and after pics...they are the best. Good luck..you will get it Barb

From: TTTONITO Sent: June 29, 2000 Message 7 of 16

My WIFE AND I ARE INTERESTED ON EXCHANGING REAL PHOTOS
FISTING INCLUDED. lET US KNOW TTTONITO@AOL.COM

From: zappaz1 Sent: June 29, 2000 Message 8 of 16

Hi Jane,

It sounds like you are wanting to do this very fast... possibly too fast.

That is not the way things work. Whatever method you use for stretching should be gradual, pleasant, and painless. It should not be done without using the Kegel Exercises, and should only be done if you have no contraindications to doing it.

Any type of stretching should only be a little each day and then followed by the Kegel Exercises. Once you reach the degree of stretching desired, you must continue doing the Kegels enough to maintain good vaginal tone. The "regular adult size" (and even the "larger sized") balloons taken out of blood pressure cuffs are usually used by those who have very large vaginas and want to become "extremely large".

If you buy a blood pressure kit that is a regular size, the removed balloon is big, and has to be rolled up to be inserted. It will not take many squeezes of the bulb to make it unroll and soon become very tight. They also make smaller infant and child sized blood pressure cuffs, and even inflatable dildos have been used to prepare smaller vaginas for fisting. Some even sit on the balloons to hold them in while stretching.

Someone on this group thought up the idea of using a "waist of tape" around the balloons to help this and even allow a "bigger inside part" to be pulled out... for stretching from the "inside out". I have not heard how that idea turned out :-) Stretching from the inside out is the same idea as using slightly "cupped fingers" to pull outward on the vaginal rim.

I can only tell you what people I know have done, and know nothing about your particular case, so I can not tell you what exactly is best to do, or use... or even if you will be capable of large stretching. Most healthy women can stretch a lot, but some have reasons not to do it.

Good Luck,

zappaz1@excite.com

From: jimbo2112_uk Sent: July 2, 2000 Message 9 of 16

Hi all,

This sounds like a good case for a `fisting diary`! Jane, could you keep us informed? Hopefully with a pictorial?

Best of luck (and fun!)

Jimbo

From: SwingNCajuns Sent: July 2, 2000 Message 10 of 16

Sure Ill do my best..... Jane

From: roythek1 Sent: July 6, 2000 Message 11 of 16

The best "low cost" item I have used on my lady friend to stretch her pussy is a "field cone". I lub it up and slowly insert it deeper and deeper into her pussy. Other times, She will lub it up and lower herself on it stretching her pussy wider and wider. I

From: BAdams22 Sent: July 6, 2000 Message 12 of 16

Yeah, that works just like the huge butt plug I got from the Dennio site.

From: SwingNCajuns Sent: July 9, 2000 Message 13 of 16

Thanks Everyone, Great advice, I just got my Dennio Plug in and its working great, still cant get past the knuckles though ;-( Jane

From: [unknown] Sent: July 9, 2000 Message 14 of 16

Jane...

Have you tried using gloves and lube...this has worked very well for me...and also does not rub the skin so bas as to cause swelling afterwards...you do need to keep the lube "at hand" ...it really does help, and feels soooooo good!!

Good luck!!

Gayle

From: SwingNCajuns Sent: July 10, 2000 Message 15 of 16

Yes I am using lots of lube and he is using gloves. I just dont think I am big enough yet. Hopefully soon, Jane

From: BAdams22 Sent: July 10, 2000 Message 16 of 16

Good luck...at least you are having fun trying