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Message: New to fisting

From: joeplummer Sent: February 1, 2000 Message 1 of 7

Hi, My name is also Joe. Me and my wife Nan(short for Nancy)have been experimenting with fisting for about a year now. We have come to a stumbling block so it seems. I can get my fist almost all the way in, but we are at a point where we are both afraid of the next step, that being the final push for the rest of the way in. We are both afraid of causing pain and niether of us is sure what will happen if we force anymore. Any suggestions will be highly appreciated. We are a loving couple and want to get there but need the advice for the final step.
Thanks
Joe and Nan

From: Joe-CindyAndJoe Sent: February 4, 2000 Message 2 of 7

Hi Joe and Nan,

Welcome to the club.

Cindy and I have been away for a while, and will be pretty busy this weekend. But hopefully Cindy will have time to answer you on Monday or early next week.

My usual advice is to let Nan be in charge and determine how much stretching to do and how often. I assume that you've read Cindy's first story "Two Hand Are Almost Enough". There she describes how we stretched her vagina over a period of several months.

Yours,
Joe

From: Cindy-CindyAndJoe Sent: February 7, 2000 Message 3 of 7

Dear Joe and Nan,

First off, despite Joe's (my Joe's) unlimited faith in me as THE fisting guru, I don't really feel comfortable in this role. My only fisting experience is with Joe, so my experience is actually rather limited.

Basically, it's my belief that since women can give birth they should also be able to take a hand. However, I do know is that if a woman is not sufficiently turned on sexually by the idea of fisting, then it's not likely that the body's way of minimizing the pain will work for her.

Every time Joe and I fist I need him to go very slowly at first until my body is ready. Later, when I'm really turned on, my body can take Joe's hand (or hands) much deeper and more vigorously.

Maybe the goal has become TOO important, and the efforts aren't fun any more? Consider dropping it for a while and then try again later.

Hope this helps, and good luck.

Yours,
Cindy

From: joeplummer Sent: February 8, 2000 Message 4 of 7

Thanks Cindy, I will get Nan to put her comments and questions on here for you to help her with this. I agree she has to be in control. When things go just right and I can stimulate her g-spot she has major orgasms(note not just one but many). We have acquired a blood pressure bladder and are going to try that in the mean time. Will get back to you all shortly. Nice to see other people enjoy this activity also.
Thanks
Joe

From: joeplummer Sent: February 20, 2000 Message 5 of 7

Hello, Cindy and Joe, we have been practicing with the blood pressure cuff and seem to see some progress. Joe is getting very excited by the progress. He is such an eager beaver. I have had one of the most intense orgasms I have ever had using this technigue. It lasted for over 5 minutes cycling up and down. Thought I would die. Was unable to move for over 10 minutes afterwards. Joe sat there and watched totally entralled. He said at one point my eyes even rolled back in my head. Will update you all as to my progress in the near future. Thank you all for being here. I have read and looked at this site closely and it has answered many of my questions. Also releaved a lot of my worries. Do my kegels every day now.

Love to all
Nan:)

From: Cindy-CindyAndJoe Sent: February 21, 2000 Message 6 of 7

Hi Nan,

A 5-minute orgasm sounds pretty wild! Never had one like that myself :-(

Thank you for your appreciation of our club. It's messages like yours (and members who post their personal pics) that make it all worth while for us :-)

Yours,
Cindy

From: zappaz1 Sent: February 22, 2000 Message 7 of 7

Yes, inflatables are nice as they let "you" control the stretching.

Nan, your huge orgasm with the Blood Pressure Balloon is quite common. I know many who (like you did) have the most intense orgasms of their lives using this.

Be sure to go slowly and use enough Kegel exercises so your opening will always return to good tone after the huge stretching that can possibly be done pumping up these blood pressure balloons.

Possibly someone will post some images using this.

It takes a huge vagina to fill the standard size balloons "totally inside" the vagina, and I have only known two who use that method. Many can use the smaller "infant" and "child sized" balloons to pump them up totally inside. Then they can be "pushed out", or the hoses can be used to "pull" them out. This then looks a lot like the picture in the "inflatables" photo section here.

The bag is black and "bulges" the introitus outward sometimes two or more inches. Then the shiny black bag looks a lot like an infants head being born.. with everything bulging outward. That method also gives the huge orgasms you mention.

Of course, with inflatables that are smaller "toward their far end", this push out or pull out method will not bulge the rim of the opening outward.

zappaz1@excite.com