Message:   A Note of Thanks

From: layla     Sent: 15 July 2002     Message 1 of 4

Having never posted in a community before, I hope that I am getting this right. Just wanted to send a note of thanks to both Joe and Cindy for the community. It was your community, your openess and your wealth of information that lead me to allow my husband to try fisting for the first time ever recently. Much to my surprise, it only took two tries. The first time he could only get up to four fingers, the thumb just would not slip in. We tried again about a week later, and this time, the thumb slipped right in, then we got past the knuckles, then all the way up to about 1 1/2" above the wrist. WOW, what an incredible feeling it was! I have never felt so full, so completely engulfed in sexual pleasure. Now we do it about once a week, or when we have the time and the privacy (being parents it's difficult, because I tend to be VERY loud!). Now, after about 6 times he can make a loose fist and plunge it deep inside me very hard and very fast. I can handle this for about 15-20 minutes, as long as I do not touch my clit. It feels so incredible, like tiny little orgasams again and again. Then, when I am ready, I rub my clit until I cum so hard He has to work at keeping his fist inside me until I am done. Then, I pass out. I have seen posts of women and men afraid of getting "loose" from fisting, and have seen you answer with "kegels!!!" I am here to testify that the kegels DO work! I have always done them, and my husband has always said that I am very tight, even after childbirth. But now, I feel the kegels are MORE effective, because I feel every muscle contraction even more than before when I do them. So, thank you Joe and Cindy for all that you both do. You are providing such and incredible service to the erotic world. Your kindness and sharing has helped so many, I am sure. Hugs and kisses to you both!