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Message: How to find a fist fucking slut

From: Kayser Soze Sent: 21 May 2002 Message 1 of 5

Being this a discusion board, I thought I would start a discussion by posting my opinion on the subject above.

It should come as no surprise (I guess) that most of the posts in this club, as well as other clubs of such material center around men looking for woman who are into a particular "fetish".

More and more I see contact ads where a very discrete or clean gentleman is looking for a lady who is into vaginal stretching and/or fisting.

Now, every person who has posted a message like this is going to disagree with me, but that's fine, I am after all posting an opinion.

Looking for someone who is into fisting, or any other fetish for that matter, is not going to bring you happiness. First of all, finding someone who is simply looking for a hand is going to be impossible enough. Besides, is that what this is all about? I don't want to compare this to another medium, but with that kind of attitude, why not a hooker?

I think what most people want, is someone to share their sexual desires with. And that starts with finding someone to share your life and your feelings with. Until you meet that person, you will search endlessly for this mythical creature who wants to meet for a fist fucking session.

Find a woman you love, treat her like your best friend. Tell her all your desires, your fears, your wishes. Make it so you are both excited for the same things and experience them together. I think you will be much happier in the long run, cause you shared them with someone you love.

SoZe

From: Joe Sent: 21 May 2002 Message 2 of 5

Amen!

You should get into the marriage counseling business, Soze... :-)

From: slowlygently Sent: 22 May 2002 Message 3 of 5

Hello Kayser,

I would agree with most of what you wrote - I think the probability of meeting someone (in the 'real' world or the 'virtual world') and fisting on the first 'date' is fairly remote (but perhaps not impossible).

I also think, however, that the message board might make possible, the establishment of an initial 'connection' ; whether it leads anywhere is open to speculation but as analogy, imagine a person with an interest in scuba diving looking for someone to dive with. A contact through a diving message board may lead to a discussion of places to dive, equipment etc...which may then lead to further 'development' of the initial contact.

Clearly, looking for someone to dive with and someone to fistfuck are not exactly equivalent, so my analogy has limits. But if two people share the same interests and can openly express this on a message board, then who knows? (Having said this, I still think the chances are pretty slim.)

I do agree with you that it's not just a matter of a hand (or hands) being put into an opening - there's much, much, much more to it than that. All I'm saying is that the messages, IMHO, might be viewed as an expression of interest, which may (or may not) lead to other things.

With Good Wishes,

SG

From: masterslovelypet Sent: 23 May 2002 Message 4 of 5

Excellent advice !!!

It is true, find someone to share life with and adventure together.....it's much more fun and fulfilling.

~masterslovelypet..........(new to this community, and loving it ! )

From: newunew Sent: 27 May 2002 Message 5 of 5

Wanted to share that I was introduced to this activity for the first time by starting an email conversation with a very sweet lady who had left a message on a community board saying she was interested in trying it. So it does occur. And she was very, very lovely, even though we later found we weren't suited to be life mates.

But I don't think I would ever start a thread with a title like the one used here.

Would a lady interested in sharing such an intimate undertaking with a gentlemen, maybe for the first time, with all the trust and safety issues involved, really feel more willing to trust someone who thought of her that way? The man has to be very, very sensitive to the woman's feelings. Would a man advertising he is looking for a "slut" be likely to have that sensitivity? I couldn't imagine why I would be interested in such a man if it were me on the other side.