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Message: New member, what a great group I've found here

From: vidguy69 Sent: 25 Jan. 2005 Message 1 of 6

Hello everyone. I just joined your group and must say it has everything I've wished for in a group. Especially fisting, pumping pussies and large insertions. I've always wished I could find a lady who would let me fist her--and lo' and behold I've recently had that wish fulfilled. My lady friend is a BBW, has delivered two children and has an amazingly large pussy. In my first meeting with her, the subject of fisting never came up until we were nearly finished with our brief assignation. The conversation turned to what I could do to make her cum and she said she would love to have me massage her clit and labia. Things quickly turned to me inserting several fingers inside her and ultimately I had my entire hand up to my wrist inside her. I could feel her muscles clenching on my hand quite firmly as she lunged downward on my hand until I was past my wrist and up to my forearm inside her. She came violently a couple of times, squirmed and thrust herself down on my arm. Then, she told me how I'd managed to hit her "G" Spot so well she just had to have me fist her often. I've done that, and everytime my hand is inside her well-lubricated channel I can feel her manipuliting herself so I'm against her "G" Spot, where she really reaches a strong climax.

Sorry to make that such a long introduction, but I ask if women who have been fisted this way, find their "G" Spot is especially sensitive when a full fist is inside them. My lady definitely says it does and I often clench my hand into a fist inside her and have my thumb extended to rub on her G Spot. I've also found that if I rotate my fist in her while I shove it further it gives her a wonderful sensation while I churn it around in her. Then she will clench tightly on my fist as I try to pull it back out of her and she simply goes crazy with pleasure. I can tell by her squeals and moans she is struly enjoying it. She's also into uretheral stretching and insertions, says she can take something like my index finger in it. But that will come later for us. I'm having so much fun exploring my new-found pleasure.

From: Joe Sent: 25 Jan. 2005 Message 2 of 6

Hi Tom,

Thanks for your introduction - very sexy reading!

Welcome to "Cindy and Joe". Hope you enjoy our group.

Joe

From: Kneebone Sent: 27 Jan. 2005 Message 3 of 6

Welcome to the group, Vidguy!

My wife and I can totally relate. Before knowing me, she didn't know fisting, she didn't know her G-spot, she didn't know her cul-de-sac. And in those days a 'spectacular' night would have been around 15 orgasms, which is barely a footnote compared with the fun we have now. (Whenever we see some woman on TV who brags about having 3-5 orgasms in one night, we burst into helpless laughter. Literally. Because we know what's truly possible. :-)

You mention a couple techniques which are among my fave fisting techniques. The 'churn' you describe can possibly be described as a butter churn motion, but I prefer to describe it as thrust-twist-pull-twist. And the clench tightly/pull your fist down against the pelvic floor can be quite fun. With each thrust/pull, try to pull a shade more further out than the previous thrust/pull.

Try taking it to the next step, ie, keep pulling until your fist pops out. And if she's thoroughly warmed up, try sliding your clenched fist back in. When you're In The Zone, you should be able to pop out/pop back in with no troubles.

If you're having any difficulty with that, bear in mind that I wrap my first 2 fingers over my thumb, but tuck my last 2 fingers into the palm of my fist. As in all things, your mileage may vary.

As to the G-spot in particular, yes, I work it well, usually by lifting not my thumb up into it but rather the base knuckle of my first finger. But there are so many magic spots in there. Sliding my fist left-right, letting the knuckles of all my fingers slide over her cervix. Or gently pushing down into her cul-de-sac and holding firmly.

Try kicking it up a notch by holding one or two golfballs in the palm of your hand. I can't comment on how (un)manageable that would be with the naked hand, as I prefer to fist with a latex glove on. Ergo the golfballs will be inside the glove, in the palm of my hand. Another variation on this is to slip a vibrating egg into the palm of your fist (optionally alongside one of the golfballs).

With the right placement of a vibrator, you can tease her fluffy G-spot as you pull your fist outwards. Optionally, just reach in with a couple fingers and 'scoop' it outwards, giving it more visibility and of course being able to tease it mercilessly with the tip of a vibe. ;-)

Hell, just holding a Pocket Rocket vibe against her clit while fisting her is probably one of the most intense experiences for her. *sigh* :-D

Hope you find something beneficial among my ramblings.

From: vidguy69 Sent: 27 Jan. 2005 Message 4 of 6

Thank you Kneebone, for the great list of tips and idea. I know my lady friend will be more than willing to experiment further as we grow in our "playtime" relationship. I am a married man, but my wife is quite conservative in her sexual ways. Fisting is totally out of the question for a couple of reasons, one mainly being she is extremely tight in her vagina--never having had children--and she has approved of my finding a woman who could share some of my wilder fantasies. Thus, this is how I met my friend. A total "no strings" play partner. Who could ask for more.

She prefers a bare hand, says I have "piano-player" hands--slightly small but with long fingers. So, I can certainly use your ideas to increase her pleasure while I fist her. The one where you mention making a fist and trying to pull it out results in a sort of "tug-of-war" with her muscular spasm and we've hit a wildly exciting rhythm with the thrust-pull-churn method. Her uncontrollable moans and whimpers tell me I'm on the right track. I have one of those vibrating eggs and will have to see if I can surprise her with that. I'll be glad to report the results here.

I sure do appreciate some of those other variations you mention, count on my taking things to the next level with her ASAP. I'm also trying to convince her to let me videotape one of our sessions together.

Sincerest thanks again, so glad I found this group.
Vidguy69

From: Kneebone Sent: 7 Feb. 2005 Message 5 of 6

Hey Vidguy,

Sorry for taking so long to get back to you. Been hella busy at work.

I've also got the "piano player" hand thing happening. (Did the piano lesson thing before I hit puberty.) Another way of describing our hands (yours and mine) might be "surgeon's hands". I'm no surgeon, but my dad and his dad before him were. So, good genes, I guess.

Back when I first got keen to learn more about fisting, the woman I was married to at the time was pretty conservative. Long story short, I went out and discovered on my own. I eventually tried it a handful (no pun intended) of times with my wife, but she seemed to just put up with it. And she'd already had a couple of children. Compare that to the very willing young woman I first experimented with, who had never had kids. I'm convinced a lot of it has to do with attitude/enthusiasm, and of course trust.

I'm glad you liked my suggestions. I'm always wary about giving out suggestions, because there's always the risk of coming off sounding like I know more, which was never the intent. Just wanted to share a few options which might not be on everyone's idea list. :-)

My current wife is very much into fisting. And I was her first, for whatever that's worth. She and I met online, and over time I managed to really give it a good spin, both online and on the phone. The first time we did it, it was already long overdue. :-)

Alas, my wife and I had to take a break from fisting (and any sort of penetration sex) for a little while, because she was starting to hurt. Not from the fisting per se, but because it seems she has a cyst or two on her right ovary. We first found out about the first cyst when she had a kidney stone back in November, and about the second cyst this week after getting the results of an internal (intravaginal?) ultrasound. Subsequent fisting sessions were anywhere from wonderful to uncomfy (with twinges of pain). So it got to be rather discouraging. I think last night was the first time in about a month, and it was truly a 5-star night! I can't say I made up for all the time we missed, but we definitely had a bit of a mini-marathon. Ta daa! :-)

Oh, before I forget, here's another idea for you to perhaps try: If your BBW friend likes anal play, try lubing up and inserting a flexible dildo into her ass after you've warmed up her pussy with lots of fisting. Then, with your hand in her pussy, try to 'grab' the dildo by reaching your fingers around the dildo-shaped bump in her pussy. Let common sense dictate how firmly you grab on; I grabbed just firmly enough to be able to manipulate it; at no time did I try to make my fingertips touch on the other side of the dildo.

That's all that springs to mind at the moment. Does anyone else have any other enhancement suggestions to try?

From: vidguy69 Sent: 8 Feb. 2005 Message 6 of 6

Thanks, Kneebone, for the additional tips. I'll have to give that anal dildo idea a try.

My lady friend and I haven't gotten together recently, just a matter of logistics for us both--she works nites and goes to school, plus she lives about 50 miles away. So, as I plan for our next tryst, I'm thinking of another idea. I have one of those vibrating eggs that I would like to surprise her with. I mean, get her all warmed up and ready for inserting my fist and conceal the egg in my hand. Since she does like to be blindfolded, that would be easy to pull off. I think slipping my hand in and then turning the egg on slowly, at first, would give her a really pleasant sensation, then slowly increase the speed as she responds to it--keeping it in my closed fist as I thrust in and out. I think that would drive her wild as I increase the speed and bump my knuckles against her G-spot.

My present wife has no interest in any form of insertion--toy, hand, anything. She says she's totally turned on by "outer-labial" stimulation, can cum vigorously from only that, and finds objects being inserted a turnoff. Not to mention the cleanliness aspect, concerns over contracting an infection from having something foreign shoved inside her. Having never had children, she's very tight--which I find is a plus in other ways. My first wife, very small lady she was, had a large vagina and could easily take larger objects. However, she drew the line at anything larger than a regular "Coke" bottle and never gave me the chance to fist her. Four fingers up to the knuckes and thumb on her clitoris was about the limit. I guess fisting just wasn't done much, back in those earlier days before the internet, when such forms of intimacy were more widely discussed and pictured. Now, I find it--and many of the other facets of deep thrusting and insertions--a total turnon for me.

Thanks so much for your comments and for discussing this with me and the others here.