Message:   I'm new here

From: Mat     Sent: 4 Mar. 2002     Message 1 of 2

Hi, I'm Mat.
I've been looking for a place like this...
My wife and I are new to fisting. It all started with a finger... lol.
I started trying to gently increase the number of fingers I was using during oral sex, and she seemed to be ok with it.
As she became more comfortable with it, I asked about fisting. She was appaled to think that I wanted to put my whole hand "up there"!
I told her that I had read about it some time ago, and was extreemly aroused by the thought. Needless to say, she was not.
I just took it slow, and as she relaxed, I was able to fo farther.
I'll never forget the 1st time I actually had my entire hand in! I came right there!
She was a bit sore, and still wasn't too excited about it.
As we continued to fist (taking it extreemly slow, and using copious amounts of lube), it got easier. I notice that if we don't fist at least once per week, she gets tighter, and it required more stretching.
She's had a couple really strong orgasms while fisting. Once I even thought she was going to break my hand!
Just the thought gets me soooo excited. I love my wife very much, and want her to feel more pleasure than she ever has before!
I've tried to rub on her "G-spot" (to encourage ejactulation), but she doesn't seem to respond very well. I think I must be doing something wrong.
Well, thanks for letting me into this community, and sharing this with all of you...
I haven't told anyone about this!

Thanks,
Matthew