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Message: I want to surprise my husband

From: Diana Sent: 17 Feb. 2001 Message 1 of 11

I live in europe, my husband in the States. I want to give him a treat (and myself) and ask him when I see him next to slide his hand into my cunt. I have been trying to prepare for this by stretching my vagina and after 2 weeks training I can easily accept an item with a nine and a half inch circunference. Am I ready to take a hand yet? I don't want to try it until I know I can take it.

From: Ozzy2207 Sent: 17 Feb. 2001 Message 2 of 11

What exercises are you doing to stretch your vagina? Also how often are you doing them? 9 1/2in is pretty large and I wish my wife would suprise me with that.......

From: Diana Sent: 17 Feb. 2001 Message 3 of 11

I've been massaging oil to the back wall of my vagina and stretching with my fingers. I've used various dildos and plastic bottles. It's been a lot of fun and I was surprised how quick I got to this stage. Can I take a man's hand yet?

From: J.I. Sent: 18 Feb. 2001 Message 4 of 11

Diana,

I'm glad that you found this enjoyable.

I just did a quick measure of my right hand, and if I straighten my fingers out and squeeze my hand the circumference is just under 3.5 inches.

I'm a male, 5' 9" tall, medium build, 154 pounds. If your husband in larger than that then you may need to continue stretching.

- JI

From: J.I. Sent: 18 Feb. 2001 Message 5 of 11

I made a mistake -

I should have said the curcumference was just under 9.5 inches, not 3.5 inches.

I think I was automatically dividing by pi and rounding up... I'm a geek.

- JI

From: Kayser Soze Sent: 18 Feb. 2001 Message 6 of 11

What the hell, I'll throw in my 2 cents worth...

I think at 9 1/2 inches you have the ability to take a fist. In fact, I would stay right where you are. One of the joys of fisting, is reaching the goal together, it really is a very sensual act that should be shared between two people who really care about one another. No matter what size hands he has (unless they are just HUGE) I am pretty sure with lots of lube, lots of patience, and lots of communication, you'll be able to take his fist. At least if it takes a little effort, he'll feel like you two have accomplished something very special together.

Soz

From: Diana Sent: 18 Feb. 2001 Message 7 of 11

Thanks for your comments....much appreciated. I think I'll stick at 9 and a half for now, it will be fun to let my husband continue to push our perameters further.

From: zappaz1 Sent: 19 Feb. 2001 Message 8 of 11

Hi Diana,

Your size may be enough now. Many men can insert a hand if the vagina can take an object about 10 inch circumference.

If he is not a large man, he may be able to do it now with no problems. Your present size of 11.5 inches is divided by 3.14 show you are now 3 inches across.. which is very close to the average size needed for a male hand.

At 4 inches across (or 12.5 inches around) a vagina will often allow double fisting.. but that is near the size of a babies head.

Your method of stretching the back wall of the vagina down toward the anal side (perineal massage) is one of the fastest methods of stretching and you should have little or no problem continuing that method to get a little larger if needed (should his hand be large).

Good luck.. and if you are like the huge majority of couples who do can easily do this.. it will be a wonderful and enjoyable activity for both of you.

From: toy b Sent: 15 Feb. 2002 Message 9 of 11

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From: ceje Sent: 9 Jan. 2003 Message 10 of 11

Where do you live in europe?

From: larryluke Sent: 1 Feb. 2003 Message 11 of 11

I don't think I go any larger. If my wife suddenly had a larger pussy I'd wonder what big cock she was fucking. That and like so many here commented. That's the most fun part of it all. The work to get it in the first time.
At 9.5 his hand will fit, hands are more flexible than objects.