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Message: A wonderful club!

From: yaoocc Sent: April 13, 2000 Message 1 of 6

Thank you Cindy and Joe for having me as a member. I have been fixated by the idea of fisting for about 8 to 10 years now, yet my wife considers it unusual and rarely wants to have more than three of my fingers in her virgina. Which is why this club is such a joy to me. "Normal" ( in as far as anyone can be ) people dicussing their sexual activities and experiences and by doing so bringing to the fore a subject which is often hidden.

I have had the pleasure of fisting my wife on a couple of occassions in our 16 year relationship. On the first occassion after having had an explosive orgasm she asked me how many fingers I had inserted in her, I told her my entire hand. Since then she has said how small my hands are for a man, seemingly to reassure herself that she does not have a large virgina. Little does she know that the thought of a large vigina is extremely erotic to me. My penis 11 inches long and with good girth, so in an effort to stop me attempting to fist her she says your penis is big enough.

However, on one occasion about a year ago she came home, having had a bit to drink after a srteet party, and we had passionate sex. Afterwards we lay in bed stroking each other for a while, my wife the held my hand and place it on her virgina, I stroked her virgina and then moved my had elsewhere. She grabbed my hand and place it back on her virgina, I did nothing but leave my hand there, not thinking much of it. She then said put your hand in me. I was amazed, and my rather flacid penis was erect and hard as ever, as I slowly fisted her. She had another explosive orgasm, it was a moment to treasure, as I have not fisted her since. It would appear that she is uncomfortable with the thought of having a large vigina, even though she doubtlessly enjoys being fisted.

The pleasure for me is one of warmth and smoothness inside her, and above all it inexplicably has a hugely erotic mental effect on me.

It is a create pleasure to be amongst people who have the same or similar enjoyment in fisting. Most of all to read how women feel about it, and discuss fisting honestly. It is for me a brilliant club. Cindy and Joe your Pics are just wonderful.

Yaoocc.

From: Cindy-CindyAndJoe Sent: April 18, 2000 Message 2 of 6

Hello Yaoocc,

Nice to hear from you. It took me a while to get used to the idea that some men like a big cunt, but once I got used to it I started enjoying having one. I find it very erotic to be stretched wide open, and I don't feel even the slightest bit "abnormal" about my fondness for that exercise anymore. ;-)

I know what you mean though, about the importance of finding a forum where it is acceptable to be part of a sexual minority. I may not be Popeye the Sailorman, but I am what I am and that's all that I am, and it's good to have friends. Your wife may very well become more relaxed about sex with age - I have :-)

Best wishes,
Cindy

From: _strauss1 Sent: April 18, 2000 Message 3 of 6

I agree with Cindy. When I finally accepted that I had a large cunt I also started enjoying having one and have admired it many times since. I now love being stretched wide open and even my large lips do not bother me anymore. Age had certainly something to do with it. Your wife is going through the same motion as I did. Just give her time to adjust. Watching video's with women with large pussies did it for me. Perhaps you could try it.

Good luck

L

From: Cindy-CindyAndJoe Sent: April 22, 2000 Message 4 of 6

Hi L,

For me sex has improved enormously with age. I am a lot more adventurous and at ease with my fantasies now. I still can't quite reveal every "sordid" fantasy detail, but Joe is quite willing to play along anytime I'm in the mood for a bit of bondage :-) And fisting goes soooo well with that.

Love,
Cindy

From: zappaz1 Sent: April 22, 2000 Message 5 of 6

Yaoocc,

Your wife will probably be less inhibited as she gets older. Certainly from what you mention, she will have little or no problem doing it. Not many women can take the 11 inches depth, as you mention is your penile length. Even she may be surprised at what she can do.

As only you can relate about her vaginal size... and she knows that... then her problem may be knowing "you like and accept her size, or even a larger vaginal size".

You will need to gradually let her know how much you like her "size" and how much it stimulates you. Begin to tell her how you fantasize about her. Don't do this all at once, but in stages, just build more and more on it. That way, it will give her time to be able to build on her own fantasies about it.. along with you. Most of all she will be stimulated by your enthusiasm and pleasure.

Eventually she will come along. You may be surprised. I find that many women have even more intense and elaborate fantasies than men. I have never put anyone down about their fantasies and even encourage them for their personal happiness and good sexual health reasons, so many women have related their fantasies to me.

Few doctors ask "do you have healthy fantasies?", as that is a good way to find out. Most fantasies, even extreme ones are harmless and are quite healthy. Rest assured that she will progress. Just be supportive and talk to her more.

Like many women tell their husband, one day she may come back at you with the fantasy: "I wish my hole could suck you into me.. and swallow you whole." LOL

Good luck :-)

zappaz1@excite.com

From: yaoocc Sent: April 23, 2000 Message 6 of 6

Thanks for the words of advice. Incidentally, in certain positions - noteably in doggy fashion - my wife cannot take all 11 inches. More importantly for me is that we can together eventually enjoy fisting, I look forward to working towards that goal.