Message:   You and your hobby

From: wish to try     Sent: 30 Jan. 2003     Message 1 of 4


Hello

Can I start by thanking you both for such an outststanding site. The passion you share not only for each other but for your art (fisting) and especially for the time and care you take informing others and sharing your remarkable knowledge. I am a very happily married man with two aborable children and a beautiful wife. We are both 30 and we live in England. My sexy wife is a BBW and thats just the way I like her. Unfortunately she feels she is too big and unattractive to let me post any nude pictures of her, although we have taken them of each other. Our two babies were born by C-section and the scars and some stretch marks are both mental barriers to allowing me to share her with you. We have a full sex life and have recently widened our interests to anal sex. This we both now enjoy regulary and we especially enjoy the closeness it has brought us. We both use dildos on each others anus and thus we know to some degree what the other feels. Whilst surfing we found your site and as mentioned were both amazed at the information and pictures contained. We have not tried vaginal fisting but we have discussed it and we may later. Andreas cunt is as tight as the day we met, one advantage/disadvantage of the c-sections, do mothers who give birth vaginally have a "head start" with fisting? I love to hold Andreas cunt open when licking her and we have used the usual array of toys but nothing large. Anally she takes toys, fingers (three usually, four sometimes) and of course my cock and enjoys them all. I seem to be a little larger and she can get most of her hand in me. This maybe of course because she has smaller hands! Is the female anus tighter than the males? I would like to fist her bum and her mine but she expressed a concern. She remembers a story about elderly gay men whose anul passeges had weakened due to sex and who as a result were not continent. Is this true? Would we have to pay this price for endulging our tastes? This is an area we are keen to explore but we need to know we are not damaging ourselves only stretching. On another note, during the last pregnancy we were encouraged by a midwife to rub wheatgerm oil on Andreas perinuim to help it stretch during birth. As Andrea becomes very sexually aroused during pregnacy due to the horemones, this often led to great sex. Have you ever used this oil? Does it aid stretching? Should we be using it in our fist play? Sorry to ask so many questions I am sure you have answered them all before but we are new to this.

Please keep up the good work. As I said this site is beacon for all who profess to run an aldult site. If I was a film or book producer I would commision you at once.

Please respond via e-mail or on the site message board.

Thank you for all you do. Thank you Cindy for all you take.

Matt & Andrea