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Message: Fisting diversities

From: cookie Sent: 10 Dec. 2003 Message 1 of 7

Hello everyone ,after several years as a member it has come to my attention that almost all the members(at least those in pictures) are of european or white background.I would like to know if the fisting lifestyle is prevelant in other cultures and races and if there are any women of colour who are members of this group?It seems that the only pictures with black or indian ladies are from commercial ones. Thanks Cookie

From: Joe Sent: 11 Dec. 2003 Message 2 of 7

> I would like to know if the fisting lifestyle is prevelant in other cultures and races

That's an interesting question, but also one that makes anyone commenting on it vulnerable to accusations of racism. :-(

My guess is that the basic sex drive is about the same for all races, but that cultural situation is very different in different parts of the world, and that affects what people dare to do and feel inspired to do with each other in bed.

Another aspect of this question is that what we see posted here at "Cindy and Joe" is affected by the fact that this is an English-language site, and that different cultures have very different views about pornography. Without having any information to back me up I have the impression that pornography has a larger audience and presence in the "white Anglo-Saxon" culture than in other cultures. So although there may be just as much fisting in other cultures there may not be as much pornography featuring fisting in other cultures simply because there isn't as much pornography in other cultures.

Whether our culture's greater consumption of pornography (if it's true) is a good thing or a bad thing is yet another question.

There's been at least one previous thread here at "Cindy and Joe" about different cultures' attitudes to sex: http://cindyandjoearchive.com/Messages/Cat02/msg00479.htm

> and if there are any women of colour who are members of this group?

I recall a girl named Diamonde who was active here last year and who was black and from Trinidad and lived in Norway. Other than that I can't recall any women members who have stated that they were black, although that may be because most women members here haven't indicated their race.

There are a lot of pictures circulating on the Internet featuring Asians doing fisting, the most famous being perhaps Elmer and his wife.

Joe

From: cookie Sent: 11 Dec. 2003 Message 3 of 7

Thanks Joe; I hope you don't think it was a racist question, I definitely not in any way a racist. It is just a thing I had noticed and I am a curious person. and like to see as many variations of people in sexual situations as possibl.As to pornography, I think most european and western people have had more access to modern technologies to produce pornography than third world countries and that may help to explain the difference.Anyway thanks for your answer . Cookie

From: princekoa Sent: 17 Dec. 2003 Message 4 of 7

Cookie yes there are so many....that do

There are a lot of Black & Latina's Women in the Chicagoland area where I am from that enjoys being Fisting, ....hummmm ... they do keep it hidden like it's a taboo and won't even tell a spose or lover about how they really feel and thats truely sad.

Koa

From: cookie Sent: 17 Dec. 2003 Message 5 of 7

Thanks for answering Princekoa; I believe there are many black and other women of colour that enjoy fisting and stretching, too bad they don't show it more.Cookie

From: pereira6x Sent: 22 Dec. 2003 Message 6 of 7

hi everyone,

Our 2 cents worth - fisting is a taboo I guess for many black / latin women and men because of old-fashioned thinking and taboos. Women are supposed to be "tight" and guys are supposed to satisfy them by ordinary intercourse. I know that in the Caribbean in many places oral sex performed to a woman by a man is a big no-no to admit to doing, and sex toys are only for "kinky freaks". Lesbianism, homosexuality are so completely considered repulsive and bad that people are literally beaten to death for this type of activities.

You see a lot of people in USA also carrying these types of sexual cultural beliefs as a cultural burden sadly.

J & M

From: Qbert Sent: 23 Dec. 2003 Message 7 of 7

i was here, I'll be back.. lol thinking.. and sorry i'm slow thinker..
qbert.
i'm sorta with cindy n joe though..