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Message:   Why do fisting

From: pereira6x     Sent: 4 Nov. 2003     Message 1 of 2

Howdy all, its been a while since I wrote anything here..

Its so funny, just the other day I was chatting with some people in www and we started to talk about fisting. Once again I noticed how much ignorance, false assumptions and fear / disgust is out there regarding what I consider a fun sexual practice.

Some people just could not / did not want to understand why we did fisting. Simple answer is, because M loved the way it felt and I love her and want to make love to her in ways that feel the best to her! Nothing more, nothing less.

So many people, men and women, seem to have a real fear of trying out anything sexually. Hey, I'm all for keeping things sensible and being careful, but other than that why two adults in love would not experiment with physical pleasures is beyond me and my understanding.

It also seems porn movies more and more shape the view of people in the sense of whats acceptable and whats not. I guess 99% of blue movies nowadays feature anal sex, so everybody seems to be thinking that is / should be part of every bedroom's activities. At the same time these people frown upon vaginal penetration with anything large - something I think most women would enjoy if they eased their minds.

Oh well, that's my Tuesday's Thoughts..

Joao



From: Joe     Sent: 5 Nov. 2003     Message 2 of 2

Hi Joao,

Why do fisting? Why not? :-)

I think for most couples who are into fisting there are a combination of reasons.

For the man it is the thrill of seeing and feeling his woman's pussy being stretched and expanded and/or the idea of pushing her to her limit.

For the woman it is the feeling of being filled and/or the feeling of something large penetrating her and perhaps the feeling of vigorous motion in and out of her pussy. I've had the privilege of fisting five women during my life, and all except one said it was the most pleasurable, mind-bending sex she had ever experienced. (The one exception thought it was OK, but not all that great.)

For both the man and the woman there is a feeling of doing something special, and the feeling that a special and beyond-the-ordinary kind of intimacy is involved.

If you want to read more opinions related to the question of "why do fisting", you could look at some of the old message threads that are archived here: http://www.CindyAndJoeArchive.com/Messages/Cat02/index.htm

Good luck with your fisting adventures. :-)

Joe

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