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Message: Maturity and age: Recommendations

From: Mary_Hand Sent: 22 Feb. 2003 Message 1 of 6

Is there a medical consensus as to when it is advisable to begin stretching and or fisting. I have a friend who though 18 is petite and went through her puberty quite late. She is keen to go further than I have been comfortable with, and dont want to leave her with gyno problems later. Any authoritative advice is welcome.

From: Joe Sent: 22 Feb. 2003 Message 2 of 6

Mary,

Please don't consider my reply to be "authoritative", as all of the women I've had a relationship with that involved fisting have been in their 40's or above.

As far as possible gynecological problems goes, I don't think that should be a concern if the woman does Kegel exercises regularly.
http://cindyandjoearchive.com/Messages/Cat11/msg00122.htm
http://groups.msn.com/CindyandJoePublic/kegelexercises1.msnw

The more general question of maturity has been raised here once before, and I answered it (in the absence of other replies) as you can see here:
http://cindyandjoearchive.com/Messages/Cat02/msg00453.htm

It would be nice if there are any female members here who have had an early start in their fisting career who would tell us all whether or not they've had any negative consequences from it.

Joe

From: Mary_Hand Sent: 22 Feb. 2003 Message 3 of 6

Thank you Joe for your prompt reply. I suppose I was a little earlier in starting than those you mentioned as I was 26 but had given birth to my daughter. The only problems Ive had are irregular periods but I dont think they are related necessarily

Mary

From: vagfister1999 Sent: 23 Feb. 2005 Message 4 of 6

Hello everyone,

New member here. I would just like to add that I have had experience with a woman that was 18 when we got into fisting. She was new to it as was I. It all happened by accident but we fell in love with it instantly. She went to her regular doctors appts. and she never had any issues in regards to medical issues. That is my experience with younger fistees. Everyone is different. Best advice is to check with her doctor.

From: Bahagirl621 Sent: 24 April 2005 Message 5 of 6

Hi! This is my first post, but I have visited this site often for the last several years! Fisting is my biggest turn on. I am 22 years old. My boyfriend and I started stretching when I was 16 not with the intention at that point of getting his whole hand inside of me. I think the first time he "fisted me" I was 17 or 18. I absolutly love it and have the best orgasms ever. This is still a regular part of our sexual activity. As of now he can get his intire hand inside of me as well as about 3 other fingers. We also like to play with speculms and other insertions. =)

From: angelia Sent: 24 April 2005 Message 6 of 6

In my case I started it at 16, it was very painful and I bled. I just didn't want to upset my then boy friend who got a kick from watching Eileen Welles in being doubled fisted by Nanay Hoffmann in Candy Stripper. My parnter now fisted me too, and I couldn't somehow forget my first few times which was quite painful tho' rather thrilling in times to see his whole fist disappeared inside me ( I am petite and small).