Message:   Byrdman

From: Shy Girl Freak     Sent: 24 Aug. 2002     Message 1 of 1

I must say that I totally understand where you are coming from in the usage of your words. I have no problem with those that wish to use it or like to be called this in lovemaking or otherwise. I meant no ill respect towards you at all. My only problem was that women tend to turn off what they like or want to try simply because of words or statements like that. I mean it can be hard to want to try different things as it is for again the stigmatism that society puts on us all. So that was my only beef. But I will say I admire you being a gentleman in responding to it the way you did. Sorry if I upset you in any way. Again it is only my opinion as a woman.We spend to much time hiding what we really are and want because of how we may be looked at by others. Sincerely Shy Girl