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Message: Dear Joe

From: byrdmann Sent: 24 Aug. 2002 Message 1 of 3

No disrespect intended, I did say ladies or sluts as to open all avenues. I have had no success meeting anyone being nice or respectful , but still try to be so ! A lot of women are proud to consider themselves as sluts because they see nothing wrong with that term , and some ladies do not . I do however consider everyone . That is why I said ladies or sluts . I do hope you understand my reasoning and will in the future eliminate the term for the sake of everyone! Resectfully Byrdmann

From: byrdmann Sent: 24 Aug. 2002 Message 2 of 3

Sorry , I used it again. I just did it in context so you understand what I was saying.Some ladies do not on my other response was supposed to be some ladies do. I in my heart am not trying to imply this , I feel I am now greatly misunderstood by all. Again I am sorry and hope that I may be forgiven by all at Cindy & Joe`s.

From: Joe Sent: 24 Aug. 2002 Message 3 of 3

Hi Byrdmann,

When you say that your use of the word "slut" didn't imply disrespect toward women then your apology is accepted. And I guess now you must realize that when you use that word that many people assume that disrespect is what you mean, so it would be best to either avoid saying "slut" or else to always qualify your use of the word and explain what you mean.

> Sorry , I used it again.

Yes, but this time you (and I and Shy Girl Freak) are using the word because we're talking about the usage of the word, and that shouldn't be a problem, except for people who are simply allergic to words themselves, which is silly.

For example, it strikes me as very silly that some chat and bulletin board software censors words, turning them into **** or something else. MSN Chat used to do it but I just tested it and it doesn't seem to do it anymore.

MSN Chat used to turn the word "nazi" into ****. So how are people supposed to discuss the harm done by the nazi party in Germany, or how one should best combat the new-nazis of today? In fact, MSN Chat used to turn the word Matsushita into Matsu****a. That's showing disrespect to that company and all of it's employees in my opinion.

But allergy to words can run pretty deep, even though it's basically silly. I know enough about how Americans feel about "the N word" (what African Americans used to be called) that I don't use the word even when I'm just talking about usage of the word - as you can see. :-)

Joe