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Message: Thanks

From: nala Sent: 5 Jan. 2002 Message 1 of 3

I know this may seem strange, but I was diagnosed with cancer a little over a year ago and as a result, some pretty significant and major surgery was done. As a result of that and having to deal with a new body image I had lost any and all of my sex drive. My hubby has been very understanding and supportive, but I can only imagine what he has been going through. Anyway, what I'm getting to is that finding this site has helped to bring back some sexual feelings, curiousity, and I am starting to become "stimulated" again. I know this may seem voyeuristic, but looking at the albums is helping me get "inspired" once again. I thought and feared my sex drive was dead. Now I know it's not. For that, I'm saying thank you.

nala

From: Joe Sent: 5 Jan. 2002 Message 2 of 3

Dear nala,

Thank you very much for your message. It was very touching, and confirms the opinion that Cindy and I have that this "community" servers a useful purpose. We have always tried to combine erotic pictures (and now video clips) with an intelligent and humorous attitude, and to provide useful advice and inspiration related to the kinds of sexual activities that we like best.

Sex is a strange thing. On one hand it is an extremely strong driving force and a very important part of our lives. But at the same time it is surrounded by so much secrecy and so many taboos and prejudices. For many people this results in sex becoming something distorted and unnatural, when it should in fact be a very natural thing.

I'll ask Cindy, who is the more intelligent and more sensitive of the two of us, to comment on your message as well.

Good luck,
Joe

From: Cindy Sent: 5 Jan. 2002 Message 3 of 3

Dear nala,

Thank you for posting such a personal message. This message board is where Joe and I get the payback for the efforts that we put into this site, and a message like yours is the kind that leaves behind warmth for a long time. I hope that you're over the worst and feel like looking towards the future again.

As for seeming voyeuristic, I don't think that you're that any more than I'm exhibitionistic, which is not at all. (I would never have posted pictures of myself on the Internet (that was Joe's idea) but I do get a lot of enjoyment from people's reactions to the "Cindy and Joe" web site.) Sex is a very private thing but that doesn't mean that we don't need to share our feelings about it from time to time. Before meeting others over the Internet who are also into vaginal fisting I used to feel very alone and a bit of a freak for enjoying that sexual variation. Feeling like that isn't all that great. But having "met" others who share the same interest I now feel comfortable about being part of a perfectly OK sexual minority, and that is a much better feeling.

Regards,
Cindy