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Message: It takes two to Tango

From: Drake442 Sent: 14 Nov. 2000 Message 1 of 4

I just want to express my admiration for Cindy. I believe that few woman have the motivation to actively explore their sexuality, never mind post pictures and video of the journey for all to see on the internet. How many times does one hear "My husband just doesn't want to make love often enough." or "My man won't try anything new in bed." Very seldom. Several of my married friends (and there marriage counsellors) confirm the fact that men hold the lions share of the libido. It is so wonderful to see a beautiful woman such as Cindy taking such an active role in the physical expression of love.
My wife can be a "motivated" lover at times, even so I do not believe she finds fisting to be an erotic pleasure. Knowing my desire, she does not object when I ease a few fingers inside, however, when I ask if she is OK, the response is always, "Yes, what ever you want." From past attempts, I know that does not include the entire hand. I suppose my wife is more open minded than some, but still, I can't help but think that Joe is one lucky guy.

From: Joe Sent: 14 Nov. 2000 Message 2 of 4

Thank you very much for indicating your admiration for Cindy.

> It is so wonderful to see a beautiful woman such as Cindy taking such an active role in the physical expression of love.

Yes, she does become very uninhibited when she's aroused, and it is wonderful to be together with a woman like that. See my posting about the next set of video clips.

> I can't help but think that Joe is one lucky guy.

Yes, I am, and thanks for reminding me. We've been together for eight years now, and there is always the danger that one begins to take wonderful things for granted and not take proper care of a great relationship, so it's important that I keep remembering how wonderful Cindy is.

Joe

PS. I have a problem with your nickname of "Cindy & Joe", which to me could lead to confusion as to who is who in this club. Would you please change your nickname to something else - you can do that by clicking on Member Tools and then on My Member Profile over at the bottom of the menu bar. Thanks.

From: Drake442 Sent: 14 Nov. 2000 Message 3 of 4

Sorry about the confusion. Logged in for the first time today. Didn't choose "Cindy & Joe" as my nickname intentionally, it just sort of happened.
And you are right, it is easy to take beautiful things for granted.
One question: What kept yourself, and Cindy, interested in maintaining this site once the initial trepidation/excitement wore off?

From: Cindy Sent: 16 Nov. 2000 Message 4 of 4

Dear Drake442,

> What kept yourself, and Cindy, interested in maintaining this site once the initial trepidation/excitement wore off?

This is a very good question, and Joe asked me to answer - he says I'm better at expressing things like this. (Although Joe then corrects my English, which isn't quite perfect.)

There are a lot of reasons why "Cindy and Joe" exists, and continues to be maintained, despite various setbacks. (These setbacks include a lot of technical problems back when we were located at Excite Clubs, including an almost complete "melt down" approximately one year ago, and then Excite more-or-less terminating the Excite Clubs service back in August.)

To start with one of the simple reasons, Joe is somewhat exhibitionistic on my behalf, so he likes to make and post the pictures of me, and now the video clips.

But there's more to it than just exhibitionism. We both get a feeling of satisfaction from creating something that other people enjoy and appreciate. This applies to the whole "Cindy and Joe" community, and also to the Cindy pictures and video clips. It's very gratifying, especially when we get feedback. (Hint, hint :-)

Then we come to the most important reason why we maintain "Cindy and Joe", and why it is a fairly important element in our lives - even though we are both too busy with other things to use as much time on "Cindy and Joe" as we'd like.

"Cindy and Joe" provides a place where people with a common interest (vaginal fisting and pussy stretching) can communicate with each other, and that this is very important, at least for us and for a fair number of other people.

We humans have a need to communicate with each other about the things which are important to us in our lives. Things like how to be a good parent, what to do with problems in relationships, how to deal with aging parents, etc., are all things we can talk to good friends and family about.

But who can you talk to about important sexual matters? Here's where the Internet allows us to get together and talk about these things without worrying about other's reactions. Here we can be completely anonymous. We can say things here that would be unmentionable in our "real" lives, and this is good because some of these unmentionable things can be very important and powerful factors in our lives.

In other words, we hope that "Cindy and Joe" can provide a sense of community for those who feel the need for it. We hope that this community can relieve the feeling of aloneness, and the fear of being abnormal and perverse, that might otherwise plague the lives of some people.

I'm betting that you hadn't expected such a long and serious answer to your simple little question, so I'll try to lighten up with one final reason for the existence of "Cindy and Joe":

Let's face it, Joe needs a hobby to keep him off the street corners, and "Cindy and Joe" is basically his hobby :-)

Best wishes,
Cindy