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Message: Male fisting ...

From: praeditus Sent: August 7, 2000 Message 1 of 4

This post is somewhat in response to Zappa's comment to a picture that surfaced in this club. The picture was of a male being fisted past the elbow. The question I have is two fold. First of all I I respect the fact that this club was founded as a vaginal fisting club. However, is this the only type of fisting that this club is intersted in? Are the club memebers and club founders interested in female or male anal fisting?

Second, this is less of a question and more of a comment. With the male fisting pic, Zappa said that this pic would be better suited for a gay male club. Now, even though this pic DID portray male-male fisting, I was very upset by this comment. Males who enjoy fisting in no such way are necessarily gay. In fact, the wife and I had though about posting some pics to this club depicting our mutual love for fisting, but now I am not so sure.

I would love to hear others' take on this subject.

D

From: Joe-CindyAndJoe Sent: August 7, 2000 Message 2 of 4

Hi praeditus,

This subject has been covered once before, as you know, on the thread entitled "Member introdution and a question", dated June 11, 2000.

As I said back then, Cindy and I would prefer that this club maintained a fairly strong focus on the things about which we consider ourselves to be knowledgeable, or at least experienced, in: vaginal fisting and pussy stretching. We would feel uncomfortable being the owners of a club where subjects were being discussed such that we felt ourselves to be totally incompetent to know what was good or not so good.

Anal fisting can be great, and we are not saying that we have anything against it. But it can also be dangerous, especially if taken to extremes, so we think that in a worst case scenario it could be irresponsible for us to be the owners of a club with discussions about which we know nothing.

The following link was posted on the other thread, and I placed it in the Bookmarks section at that time. It looks like a good source of information about anal fisting.
http://www.tpe.com/~match/main/analplay/

Do any members know of other informative clubs or sites on the Web that specialize in anal fisting, especially non-gay anal fisting?

Anyway, I hope this clarifies our position on this.

Joe

From: praeditus Sent: August 7, 2000 Message 3 of 4

Thanks for the clarification, I guess I consider myself somewhat of an expert... but in regards to your club, the wife and I will post pics somewhere else

D

From: zappaz1 Sent: August 7, 2000 Message 4 of 4

praeditus,

In commenting that "male to male" fisting is often associated with male gay activity, I certainly did not mean to imply that "FEMALE TO MALE" fisting was also such an activity. That is _not_ a gay activity (but it is not the subject matter that Joe originally set out for this particular club).

As Joe points out (and as any club administrator would have to do) he has to define what is the subject material of his/her club. A general sex club would be less specific and include everything.

You are a very well liked and valuable member of this Club, and I wish to thank you for your many contributions.

I probably never should have posted under the "Male to Male" picture that was posted here.